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Fashion chat- Dressed up or down??? All welcome!!

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  • piratefairy
    piratefairy Posts: 4,342 Forumite
    I too agree that it is the choice of the mother, to be decided by them, not someone else ruling it out..I always find it odd, that when my friend had her baby, she decided to go as natural as possible with things like terry nappies, and yet she didn't breastfeed at all..Surely that's the most natural solution..
    i'd like to think that if i had children i'd do what was best for us at the time..
  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    daisybella wrote: »

    My biggest fear is that I wont be able to have children.


    FWiW, chances are I can't DH and I have been not trying but not- not trying IYSWIM for a very long while now, and I was warned I probably couldn't. Its gutting, personally, my DH would be the best dad ever. But: it doesn't necessarily mean not being a parent ever. We are considering other options, and if none of those pan out, well, after many many tears I'm able now to say that's the way the cookie crumbles, and while its personally sad for us that's all it is. That sounds really blase, and I'm not really like that, but you have to find ways to get on with stuff, you know? ;)
  • daisybella
    daisybella Posts: 3,713 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    It doesn't sound blase at all Lost, I admire how you deal with it, and like to think I could be that strong if I am in the same situation.
  • piratefairy
    piratefairy Posts: 4,342 Forumite
    i'll second that!
  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    daisybella wrote: »
    It doesn't sound blase at all Lost, I admire how you deal with it, and like to think I could be that strong if I am in the same situation.

    You would be, its the only option. ;)
  • tsabo
    tsabo Posts: 437 Forumite
    Oh god, did someone say Soap and Glory? Get me out of here! :o

    Been called in to work tonight and i have NOTHING to wear! Currently 90% of my clothes are still at university (long story, problems, I came back with a couple of days worth of clothes nearly two weeks ago!) so i'm struggling. I have a quite nice purple tulip skirt but the only flat shoes with me are black military boots or Uggs! Eek.

    Bought a nice skirt in Primark yesterday it's black with little white hearts on (I think I saw it in someones blog actually) reduced to £3. No 10s so I bought a size 8 and a size 12, neither of which fit properly but it's a bargain outfit for friday night.

    DB - your hair looks lovely, I wish I was brave enough for short.
  • daisybella
    daisybella Posts: 3,713 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    What do you work as tsabo? Is it the kind of place where military boots would be okay under the circumstances?
  • Mariel
    Mariel Posts: 624 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    You've all been very chatty again! I've got no chance of catching up.
    I'm very happy - just discovered IC have their own website (never thought to look before) and they do size 43!!!!! They haven't got the Miaow boots in purple though booooooooooooo - I REALLY wanted those.

    Today's outfit on my blog.
  • piratefairy
    piratefairy Posts: 4,342 Forumite
    Mariel, the miaow boots are quite often on ebay, being sold by the schuh outlet ppl, so a variety of sizes..they don't often go cheap, although cheaper than in store, so keep a look out for them in a 43!
  • tsabo
    tsabo Posts: 437 Forumite
    daisybella wrote: »
    What do you work as tsabo? Is it the kind of place where military boots would be okay under the circumstances?

    I work in a bar, so I guess no-one will see my feet really! I have found some ancient black pumps now - they don't smell to great :o. It's a Valentines party so I think it's a skirt occasion.
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