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Need to face the Music
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Here too, glad the op went well and all is well. xThis is a system account and does not represent a real person. To contact the Forum Team email forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com0
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Hope your visit went well and that you can all relax a wee bit - still worrying till he's out of hospital and back on his feet I know but none of your nightmare stuff.
Probably the best pressie you can offer him is to help his OH as he'll probably be feeling a bit useless. xMortgage OP 2025 £6250/7000Mortgage OP 2024 £7700/7000
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Went to visit brother last night and i have to admit that I was not prepared for what I saw.......
He was so ill and in so much pain he was just lying there slipping in and out of sleep and could barely communicate at all.
the nurse on the ward said that this is as well as he can be expected to be at the moment and suddely he will just turn a corner and start to recover quickly..........please let that be today.
Other news seems pointless and shallow so I shall leave it for today.
Thankyou all for your kind words xxBut these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.0 -
:grouphug: awww Lou, sorry it upset you but they know what to expect and seem to be happy with his progress so just try and keep positive hun. xMortgage OP 2025 £6250/7000Mortgage OP 2024 £7700/7000
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Many hugs sweetheart
Hospitals are horrible places in a lot of ways. Just remember the Nurse's words.
Keep busy and remember lots of people are sending vibes
(((hugs)))Nevertheless she persisted.0 -
Hi Lou
Couldn;t read and run.......don;t worry too much please. Your bro has had a long and invasive operation and will have been under anaesthetic for many hours....it will take a few days for this to fully clear from his system and also he may be sedated at the moment...hence the drifting in and out of sleep and incoherence/lack of concentration etc. Give him a few days until the effects have worn off.....I'm sure that's what the medical staff are also waiting for before they make any further prognosis.
Hugs Hun.....
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Aww hugs from me too Lou honey. XXNothing is so fatiguing as the eternal hanging on of an uncompleted task. William James0
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Hugs Lou, I hope he recovers quickly xxDebt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012."I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."0
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Went to visit brother last night and i have to admit that I was not prepared for what I saw.......
He was so ill and in so much pain he was just lying there slipping in and out of sleep and could barely communicate at all.
the nurse on the ward said that this is as well as he can be expected to be at the moment and suddely he will just turn a corner and start to recover quickly..........please let that be today.
Other news seems pointless and shallow so I shall leave it for today.
Thankyou all for your kind words xx
its always a shock to see them like that:(
It sure as hell shocked me to see my Gran like that:cool:
But you know he is in the best place and hopefully getting the best care, so do try not to worry honey:kisses3::heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls0
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