Creditors have beaten me

metherer

Hi

Don't know if its a possibility, but I'd get over to the MSE old style board, for cutting down shopping budgets etc. Hope it helps a bit,

Metherer
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steve_cov

livinginhope wrote:

hope you all don't mind me posting my woes on here until then...

If it gets too much when there's nobody around, there's always someone to talk to at the Samaritans - call 08457 90 90 90. They won't judge you either.

Broken_hearted

You havn't lost you have just had a setback. I went through a stage a couple of years ago when I used to pray on a night god don't let me wake up tomorrow I don't want to do it anymore. i couldn't cope with no money and a sick partner to take care off. It was social services who push me to the edge with their constant refusal to help. They teat us like dirt because we needed adaptations and carers to come in that we couldn't afford. Banks operate in the same way they know that people are too desperate and downtroddern to fight.

moxie_2

I know how you feel and it's not nice. I have to walk over one of the London bridges to work, and many times in the dark days, I thought about just jumping off. It was only the thought of my 2 lovely daughters that stopped me. You just have to dig deep, arrange what you can with Payplan and enjoy the cheap or free things of life, such as the sun shining today. All the best, I wish I had found this board when I was in my darkest hour, it is such a support.

livinginhope

Thanks to everyone today who has offered advice and tried to cheer me up,although I have felt suicidal at times,I know I am not capable of doing anything silly,I have a great OH and wonderful kids I wouldn't do anything to hurt them.
We had a lovely day in the garden today planning a vegetable patch and sorting the mess,it hasn't been done since the fire,so looks heaps better now,this cheered me up and made me think things can only get better,will do more tomorrow if weather holds out so won't have time to dwell on debts.

lynn44

so pleased to hear you cheered up.
Good Luck and you know your friends are all here ready to help.

D&DD

:hello: Hiya have just read all through your thread and wanted to say phew you've coped sooo well :T You sound like an incredibly strong person to have got through all that,maybe its all the stress suddenly hitting you thats bringing you down at the moment.Hopefully as the weather brightens and you can get out a bit more it will help,well done on the veg patch,I'll not be the only one with an aching back tonight then

livinginhope

Hi D&DD,don't feel like a strong person,only got through it all for the sake of the kids and OH,if I didn't have them I would have nothing left,now sounding morbid again.
On a brighter note,yeh my backs aching too all that digging,I have to confess that I popped in to Tesco and bought some heat rub,not a branded one just their own make,but boy does it do the job and pheeeeeeew does it stink,no romance tonight unless OH rubs his back too and we can smell together

Littlemiss-lotsofdebt

Hi Livinginhope

I'm sending you huge hugs (((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))) because I'm a bit useless when it comes to giving advice! I do hope everything works out for you. It sounds like you have a lovely family, and at the end of the day, as long as they, and you are ok, thats all that really matters.

lots of love and luck
LMLOD xxxxxxxxxxx

D&DD

livinginhope wrote:

Hi D&DD,don't feel like a strong person,only got through it all for the sake of the kids and OH,if I didn't have them I would have nothing left,now sounding morbid again.
On a brighter note,yeh my backs aching too all that digging,I have to confess that I popped in to Tesco and bought some heat rub,not a branded one just their own make,but boy does it do the job and pheeeeeeew does it stink,no romance tonight unless OH rubs his back too and we can smell together

:rotfl: Well I'm smothered in that White Horse oil stuff (phew) :rotfl: (for all the youngsters out there its not for real horses thats just what it used to be called..although my hubby would probably say I am an old nag anyways.. :rolleyes: )
Glad to see you're feeling brighter and if it all starts to get to you PLEASE jump on here as theres usually always someone around to talk to