Scared and Lonely

jo1972

Just popping in to say hi and welcome to the boards

Good luck with your debt free journey, once you've posted your statement of affairs you will gets loads of advice and tips.

xx

belfastgirl23

Just to add I would bet your mum is worried about you already. If you've put on a lot of weight and are drinking too much, mums spot that sort of thing. My guess is she'll be relieved it's *only* debt rather than a more serious problem with your health or something.

Also on the SOA you could make a start on it with what you know and then add to it, if doing it all together feels overwhelming.

You've taken a big step by coming on here well done!!

Dex

Just want to say welcome and good luck.... you've taken a really posistive step in the right direction

Bad_Weather

Nargleblast.... I think we went to same uni.... AND have the same degree!!! :beer:

Just want to say Hi!!! :hello: Everyones so good at help when you ask for it! Everyone ive encountered via posts or PMS has went over and above help! :T

Good luck... I just recently had my light bulb moment (im catching on to the lingo) and im still struggling to get myself sorted but next month (Fingers, toes and eyes crossed) ill be back om my feet and be at a 'manageable' stage... :j

yellowpinky

Hi Flamingobroke,

You have no need to feel ashamed or embarrassed - there so are many people in your position, more than you or I ever realised. Finding this forum is one of the best things you could have done, as now you won't feel so alone coping with your debts. I owe £38k and am a similar age to you, and felt incredibly alone until I came here. Reading through the threads and various people's stories I realised that I won't be the first, or the last, in this position, and that I can survive it! There are so many people to help you or just lend an ear. I hope it all gets better for you from now on. It seems huge right now but just take things one step at a time and you'll start to see a way through.

Best wishes, YP x