Alcohol self help thread II

feelinggood_2

Al_Mac wrote:

FG are you OK?

It was a hard night last night, so I went to bed at 6pm Didn't sleep for a long time, but the thought of getting out of bed was just too much, so I stayed there.
I'm not going to the pub tonight.
I'm getting nearer to deciding to give up, and admit that I am an alcoholic, but not quite there yet. Might try another online meeting today.
The craving is pretty bad at the moment, but I'm trying to ignore it - it isn't the end of the world if I don't drink right now is it.

lewt

What you going to do about the pub tonight feelir? i night not be here to answer so will check later, im off to luton today. 2 see every1 i was in treatment with. and have after care.

feelinggood_2

I'm not going to the pub

feelinggood_2

Oh, and Lewt, I'm giving up on the idea of AA
They seem to hate me lol, doubt it would be any better at a real meeting.
Once again, I'm alone
Thanks for the links tho, I did really try my best

lewt

you think every1 hates you at some point if you really think you tryed your best then good luck to you. one meeting isnt "best" in my book but each to their own. (once again your isolating) did'nt your thinking get you in the state your in do you think it can get you out?

you know where recovery is as and when you want it.
Ps. good idea not going to the pub!

pps. i dont hate you at all. the the above is harsh however im noet going to !!!!! foot around as ive read your posts here and on the depression thread.
Theres only one person who can help you and thats you babe! you need to want it.

feelinggood_2

Thank you Lewt, I've PM'ed you.

ac

loates123 wrote:

Lambrini Bianco 150cl
SLIGHTLY SPARKLING PERRY.


A UNIQUE AND EXCEPTIONALLY LIGHT REFRESHING PERRY PRODUCED TO ONLY THE VERY HIGHEST STANDARDS.

i know someone who is a lady friend who drinks a full bottle every evening , every night of the week and they say they have not a problem, i question her and the reply is i have no problem i get all things done in life and when it is my time this is what i enjoy.
our could i make her see sense? she thinks this does her no damage and thinks its ok for her health

i started off on wine... and at the end of the day when i didnt have to be...

a mum or cook or domestic or wife or daughter or sister or grand daughter or worker or chauffer or anyones dog body......

when it was MY time....... i started like this it was my time out :rolleyes:

feelinggood_2

Back from the brink - managed to limit it to one drink this morning, trying to get through this afternoon without any.

Al_Mac

To be blunt, it isn't very good. But thenyou know that

ac

feelinggood wrote:

Back from the brink - managed to limit it to one drink this morning, trying to get through this afternoon without any.

if only you would put as much effort into not having a drink

as you do to having a drink !!!!!!