Alcohol self help thread II

Al_Mac

jake2 wrote:

you ok mac:j

Good thanks.

My brother's gf has taken the pressure off me. Whole new ball game going on. She's foriegn and a visa issue:eek: Includes grandchild of my parents:mad:

Should have done something ages ago, but didn't

RacyRed

Jake2 congrats to you and your family, the little one is gorgeous :A Hope he and mum are doing well.

Just dropped in to say hello and send you all hugs, those numbers are looking fantastic. Well done, all of you. :T

jake2

thanks racey they are both wonderfull keeping me on my toes i cant keep my hands off him:A

jake2

Al_Mac wrote:

Good thanks.

My brother's gf has taken the pressure off me. Whole new ball game going on. She's foriegn and a visa issue:eek: Includes grandchild of my parents:mad:

Should have done something ages ago, but didn't

might they be sending her back:eek:

well you be put on hold for a while so you just enjoy your new life you more

content mac i know i was years ago wen i first stopped took me good three months dry to realize wat i had been missing.......it does take a while to get your head round stopping it always lurks aswell well done babes you did it

i try and catch you all up got a lot of insentive now....suzy will be going back to work so i have baby plus the 6yr old to take care of got to have a straight head for that:o shirlxxxx i like your new thread i voted but couldnt post even though i new it was your thread

ac

mornin all

jake2

morning ac looking good:A

ac

you to hun... you too xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

ac

i think i think and analyse stuff too much ............................ i also think this behaviour is part of my alcoholism ?? ....

everything wass going fine untill 20 mins ago :eek:
(at the time of typing this it was 20mins ago...
but its took me over an hour to type this post) :rolleyes:

i attended my return to work assessment last night....
and thought things went so-so......
even got to thinking that it will do me some good to get back to
real life stuff and get me back on track.....
into the real world and feeling needed somewere else
not just at home.........
went to my meeting today..... got there before it started :rolleyes:
even spoke for about 20-25 mins..........
it was a first time for someone.... so the personal shares were quite long....
had a good meeting.. even gave a hand with the tidying up...........

hadnt heard a dicky bird from work so see if i
can go back or not......
so i rang my manager.........

she wants to refer me to occupational health & to a higher manager

which is fine by me........ except...........

(this is were my thinking too much comes into it)

that may ask for me to grant permission for the doc
to release my medical literature :eek: :eek: :eek:

so now im panicing...........

1 hr later.......................

my 'calm head' :rolleyes: is thinking.......

surely the doc can just duplicate the notes that they need....
and not others stuff.
and........
they cant do anything without my permission.......
i have a dr's appt on the 29th.... even occy health dont
move THAT quickly.... i can have a word with doc before
i make a desicion...........


other than that im good :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :A :A

welcome to an alcoholics word

jake2

the medical stuff is just why you were on the sick in the first place your neck

they cant give personal stuff its to see if your fit for work try not to worry babes have a word with him even a job not allowed full access to your records dont panick you were working there wen u were drinking they had no prob didnt know you are not now so you are in an even stronger position

glad your meeting went well hang in there:grouphug:

ac

i no i no ....

just me i no.....

everything at a standstill till next thursday now... so i should just chill out
shouldnt i