MSE Parents Club Part 4

SusanC_2

scruffy96uk wrote: »

I didn't speak to the nurse or doc just the receptionist (who I may add are all lovely at my docs) They have no note of me ever having had my tetanus and I've been registered with them since I was 3. So was told to get it done and tomoro was the 1st app.
My thumb is very swollen today and sore so will get the nurse to check it tomoro?

I got a copy of my medical records when I was getting life insurance and most of my vaccinations are not in there. I don't think OH's were all there either (only the tetanus when he was bitten by a dog IIRC) but his doctors gave him a little record card which he still has which they were recorded in.

Sami_Bee wrote: »

I had this problem but luckily barclays cards are matt not shiny and take very well to being written on in marker so I have one that says 'mine' and one 'joint' :cool:

OH writes on his Lloyds and Halifax ones okay (although I told him to write "J" instead of "joint" because I thought "joint" looked a bit weird (and it saves money on marker pen)).

Krystaltips

I find having 1 bank account works well for me

That's a lie really... I also have a joint account with my Mum that she puts money in for school uniform and shoes... And a savings account that has a passbook... Although I tend to just ring up and transfer money back into my account about as regularly as it gets transferred out... But I only ever spend money on my 1 debit card...

MrsTinks

I have 2 debit cards (just never got round to closing the A&L one lol) and several credit cards - I tend to spend on just one debit card and my Amex - Amex because I get cashback hehehe It's cleared at the end of each month if not as soon as any spends appear on it. I'm paranoid about clearing that card
Then I have 2 savings accounts - one with my baby fund in it and one with £1 in it :rotfl:
And I want to set up another account, but a joint one for bills etc... Easier than DH and I both having different bills going out of our seperate accounts - not done it so far because I just never got round to it... not because we don't trust each other... I'm just lazy lol!

elle_gee

I have my current account and another one in my name but acts as a joint account as we both pay into it and have all the bills paid out of it (can't have a joint one - not having OH's credit record drag mine down!). Both with blue debit cards, you see. Have also got about six savings accounts, all with various amounts in. Really need to organise myself and arrange specific accounts for everything..

MrsTinks

Well we have a busy day ahead here at casa del T first I need to find some clothes to put on - sat in my undies! :eek: Then I need to have a quick little tidy before trotting off to have the Roo weighed, after that we're off into town to do some banking and also stopping at the gym to sign both mummy and daddy up for a gym membership! :j :j :j - and with a little luck book mummy in for aqua aerobics on thursday night! Daddy wants to know more about the badminton club on friday evenings so have promised I'll look into that for him
Then home to see Roo's Godmother #1 who's been staying away as she was worried she had caught swine flu (turned out to just be a cold!) and maybe a little more tidying... when daddy comes home we're then depositing the Roo with neighbour (paediatric nurse!) for the evening and going to see HP! WHOOP WHOOP!
I do love having a nurse next door who loves babies and is more than happy to mind her for an evening once in a while Let's face it - she's probably more qualified to handle anything to do with babies than I am! :rotfl: so I know she'll be safe and sound in there

Now I just need to try and express enough milk to see them through the evening LOL

elle_gee

MrsTine wrote: »

.. when daddy comes home we're then depositing the Roo with neighbour (paediatric nurse!) for the evening and going to see HP! WHOOP WHOOP!
I do love having a nurse next door who loves babies and is more than happy to mind her for an evening once in a while Let's face it - she's probably more qualified to handle anything to do with babies than I am! :rotfl: so I know she'll be safe and sound in there

The nurses on the paeds renal unit at Notts offer a babysitting service for their patients.. bit far for them to come to us tho'

No trip out for us today - car's in for MOT. Might walk to the post office to post the CB form. Got speech therapist coming at 11am then my grandparents visiting this afternoon.

Am already hoping for a quiet today tomorrow so I don't have to get dressed..

MrsTinks

Elle I think that's a great idea and you might be surprised to find one of them lives near you My neighbours both work at the hospital Roo was delievered at and it's a good half hour away If you don't ask...

ladybirdintheuk

Mrs T, sounds like your feet won't hit the ground today!

We are off to Exeter tonight (my baby brother graduates with a phd tomorrow - how scary is that :eek:) so I have to pack, and also make sure washing up is all done and all those things you do before you are away from home for 1 night I would quite like a nap too, but we will see.

I already feel like I could do with that glass of wine the rest of you enjoyed yesterday - DH this morning made out that I shouldn't moan about there being so much washing up, as it was my faylt for eating lunch, and if I didn't there wouldn't be as much of it. (Well, I don't think that's quite what he meant, but that is what it came out like.... I'm trying not to be cross, but it's not working!) I wasn't even moanig about it, just pointing out that washing up and cooking takes 30 mins at least and that there will be at least another 30 mins of housework/sorting out for the next day to do every evening when I go back to work. Plus getting Izzy bathed and into bed. He'd better not think I'm doing the lot!

MrsTinks

Oh and I forgot - I've asked for my work password to be reset so I can access my emails... Need to start composing the mail to HR about flexible working... until we know where we stand with that we won't know how many days etc we need to look at child care for So that's on my "MUST do list" this week too...

3onitsway

MrsTine wrote: »

Hugs 3

I started a reply earlier then my grinch woke...

I hope you're ok and that you have managed to have a calm-ish talk with him...
Men do stupid things sometimes and just like us women do daft stuff thanks to hormones then men sometimes do too - not excusing it! But I think sometimes they freak out a little and do things they wouldn't normally have...
The question is - can you learn to trust him again and forgive? If you can then don't let anyone tell you that you're a fool for letting him have another chance

HUG

Thanks everyone for your hugs!

He did eventually sculk out of the kitchen and brought me a glass of wine that went down far two quickly, (then another!).
He looked very embarrassed - so I made him suffer. I'd changed his email and password to mine on the account he'd created so I was able to go on and read out snippets to him through the evening. :rolleyes:
He said he'd had too much to drink one night while we were away, and felt lonely, so stupidly registered onto this account to look at pics. He also said he was worried he'd lost his 'mojo' and was looking for it - it seems to be coming back now! (He said it wasn't my huge pregnant state that made him loose his mojo - he still found me gorgeous apparently .)
He hadn't actually been on very often - just a few late night/early morning perving sessions.
I made him open his normal email account and let me look through - he never deletes his emails, so I had over 1000 to see - and there was nothing incriminating, and nothing to say that internet communications had turned into reality.
I made him stay up and suffer til half 5 - mistake, i'm bl00dy shattered now!
He's gone to work now looking very sorry. I'm still confused - this is so not his style or so I thought!

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

My hair is not quite so blonde these days but yes - I think that looks like me....Fritha? Sami? 3?

Yes, you're facebook pic is a good likeness, but you're even better looking in real life!