lilmissmups moving on and hopefully upwards diary!

Fire_Fox

lilmissmup wrote: »

He still asks me if i have "been" with anyone when we do speak :rolleyes: He said something the other night about it being the final nail in the coffin, i responded with you opened the coffin.

Dunno why he asks me though as he left me, not like it concerns him enough to not what me to be with anyone else by being with him :rolleyes:

I have had this with several boyfriends (I am 36, not a !!!!!! ) it's the caveman thing kicking in. It's quite amusing to use it against them - turn up late to a party with legs or boobs on show with a man they don't know (work colleague, someone's brother or cousin back from uni) who has been primed with all your money for the night.

New man ostentatiously buys all your drinks, calls you babe, stands a little too close and makes you giggle (you might have to fake this) and then you slope off early together. Never fails to get you a text in the wee small hours asking who the hell that is.

lilmissmup wrote: »

Firefox i would like to study again maybe, i wanted to learn to work with animals but all the courses round here were college courses which you can't get funding help with and were full time and the thought of being on a course full time with 16 year olds scared me.

Foundation degrees tend to be more flexible for mature students, they attract all the usual funding but are only one day a week of actual attendance. You don't always need more than GCSEs to enter: experience is the alternative route. Some colleges will expect one A level which you can do at evening classes. Some voluntary work for an animal rescue charity would really help you get taken seriously. :T

Shoe_Gal

Sounds like good advice Fire Fox - on both subjects! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

lilmissmup

Yeah problem is my ex and me rarely went out socialising when we were together and (luckily) we have no mutual friends so i am not able to plan an "accidental" meeting, if i do see him it will be on a night out he will be hammered and i probably would be too....

Hes pretty much a hermit....:rolleyes: or he was until we split up...

I did some volunteer work for the cats protection league over the last year but only in there charity shop.

Again not driving is an issue as no rescues nearby....

I won another £50 today on another play with my free scratchcard money on my fav slot again

doodledo_2

Well done on the £50 win, fab news :T

lilmissmup

Yep £115 won this weekend

doodledo_2

PM me the sites you use I need some of that lol

lilmissmup

Just the St Minver ones for free scratchcards, obv a gamble though but i love this one slot always seem to do well on its bonus game, its the Atlantis Slot.

I need to sort out my savings though to put it away...:rolleyes:

Fire_Fox

lilmissmup wrote: »

I did some volunteer work for the cats protection league over the last year but only in there charity shop.

Again not driving is an issue as no rescues nearby....

Find a way to make it happen ... I know you can. :cool: Maybe when you move?

Shoe_Gal

Fire_Fox wrote: »

Find a way to make it happen ... I know you can. :cool: Maybe when you move?

Fire Fox, you always sound so positive :A

lilmissmup

True

I need to find my positivity again but the feeling of being a zombie is only just going