The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 4

yellowmonkey

Morning :hello::hello: :D:D:D:D

Wanna_Bee_Free

No, I'm in red! That can't be good. Well I'm still on 0 here. (embarrassed shuffling and ) oh, look is that the time...?

I seem to be doing what I always do and expecting a different result.

Sorry I'm not keeping up with the thread at the moment, no idea what you've been saying 'bout me. (nuffink I expect.)

I may not be on here again till next week, regardless of whether I'm still so far off the wagon that I'm off the road.

40somethingmum

Morning all,

YM, please put me down for 9 AFD, please.:D

40SM

40somethingmum

Jo,

Your question re the medium .... Yes I have been to a medium and my grandfather came through to me !


This was going back about 20 yrs and I went with a work colleague for a "laugh". At the time i was not "really in a good place " emotionally. To cut a long story short I had just ended a relationship where I had been the OH of a depressed drunk who became emotionally & physically violent when drunk ( I at the time very rarely drank) I kept this all secret so was suffering from a lot of inner turmoil.

Basically , my grandfather came through . He ended up giving lots of street names , his name, name of hospital he died in . Lots & lots of info that the medium could not have known . This was in England ...he was describing places where I lived in Scotland and indeed the name of the hospital in which my grandfather died.

The medium said that my gf was hurling lots of info at him as my gf was desperate for me to believe that he was looking after me.! The medium asked if I had been dreaming about him. I said yes funnily enough... quite often infact. The medium said that my gf had been trying to contact me and this sometimes happens in dreams.

Sorry , this is a bit waffly but It reminds me of a very difficult time in my life which I obviously would rather forget.

Jo , I hope this gives you the answer you were looking for.:A

Love

40SM:D

Lurkio

Morning all

10 for Esther and me please, ym.


Have I ever seen a medium? A while ago, whenever I looked in the mirror..... now it borders on large........ (well someone had to do it!)


Hope we are all peachy today.......

jo1972

Good morning :wave:

WBF, hope you're okay hunny?

Lurks, all peachy here thanks, well kinda, just got up so hard to tell, ask me when I've got through the day

40SM, thanks so much for your story and hope it didn't bring up any bad memories. Though I expect you must have been comforted that your GF is still there and watching you? I really want to go to see a medium but have no idea where to find a 'good' one. I don't know of anyone that goes that I could get a recommendation off of?

Morning to everyone else, I'll have to catch up properly this evening when.......OH goes out......and......I'm.......home.......alone :eek: :eek: :eek:

Gotta go work now :wave:

xx

ETA: OMG, a 1/3 of the month done :eek:

40somethingmum

jo1972 wrote: »

Good morning :wave:

WBF, hope you're okay hunny?

Lurks, all peachy here thanks, well kinda, just got up so hard to tell, ask me when I've got through the day

40SM, thanks so much for your story and hope it didn't bring up any bad memories. Though I expect you must have been comforted that your GF is still there and watching you? I really want to go to see a medium but have no idea where to find a 'good' one. I don't know of anyone that goes that I could get a recommendation off of?

Morning to everyone else, I'll have to catch up properly this evening when.......OH goes out......and......I'm.......home.......alone :eek: :eek: :eek:

Gotta go work now :wave:

xx

ETA: OMG, a 1/3 of the month done :eek:

Jo,

Do you have a spititualist church near you . You are more likely to get a " proper" medium there as they are not there to make money out of you IYSWIM. I think you just make a donation to their church or something. There is one near me which I have considered going to but have not yet plucked up the courage.

Have a good day.

BTW I still get lots of comfort knowing that my gf is looking out for me.;)

40SM:D

samandsheryl

Morning all

YM - 10 AFD for me please

Will catch up with the thread later, busy busy!

Sam

Different_Corner

40sm, thanks for your insight comfort that someone is sitting on your shoulder is what gets me through. I have four of them watching over me, DH to Dad, Step-Dad and GF. Get little signs..

Anyway wobbled at 5.30 - Come Dine With Me, all clear by 6pm ! 10/30

barshamhillbilly

Morning Peeps

44 Units for me Sergeant Major YM Sir (In total for the month - not just last night )

So if we are 1/3 way through the month; 3 x 44 = 132 which means I'm slightly behind target on units :eek: ..... but ahead on AF days :cool:

Need to try a bit harder ........ yes sir .....will sir .... salutes sir .....:D

Have a great day everyone

BHB
xx