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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 4

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  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    I love that you still post on here molly and not left us all :) xx
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    jo1972 wrote: »
    I love that you still post on here molly and not left us all :) xx

    I need to Jo.....It keeps me on the straight and narrow;):D

    You need to do this now Jo ....and you know you can.Go back to the first thread and start to read it all again.....You found inspiration then and you CAN do it again.
    Your children need a healthy happy mum.
    Take care of you
    Love Mollypollyxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
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    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • yellowmonkey
    yellowmonkey Posts: 7,052 Forumite
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    edited 30 August 2009 at 8:23AM
    My god you lot were busy last night

    Marru and IM ( welcome by the way :D ) you are both on my list now. 33 of us so far ( Ange I will put you down for " No target " if you like and just post AF days and then keep a total that way ). Mind you I pity the poor devil who will be scoring in January. New years and everything. God talking about New year already and we have not finished with Xmas :D

    For your info feet are page 22 ( If you have 40 posts per page )

    If you cant be bothered to look it up see here

    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showpost.html?p=23921031&postcount=853

    Be warned though. They aint pretty :D

    Have a good day everyone. Me I am at work again :rolleyes:

    Ta Ta

    ym
  • Hi Marru, Ange and IM.

    Bump in the road last night, X factor and a lager. Just the one.

    Jo, let's do this. I need to, so do you.

    Don't want the children thinking it's 'right' to have a drink every night. It's portrayed as normal in all the UK soaps, even more so as they knock it back at lunchtime, but I know it's not right.

    So I'm still on 10/14.
    DC.
    "Some people walk in the rain... others just get wet... " - Roger Miller
  • yellowmonkey
    yellowmonkey Posts: 7,052 Forumite
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    I have been AF now for 14 continuous days. My previous best was 16 so will beat that.

    I was asking myself today " Do I miss it " and the honest answer must be NO

    I dont miss the fact that I am wondering if I am OK to drive, Will I get pulled in for a test at work, Have I got enough beers in the fridge, Can I afford it and what time can I start drinking :o

    Will have some in Sept as I have arranged a surprise weekend for my OHs Birthday. Weekend in London and a visit to see 'Oliver'. Believe it or not neither of us have never seen a west end show so looking forward to that one.

    Anyway enough of me and my positivity I have work to do :p

    ym
  • You need to admit complete defeat to alcohol - that you are totally powerless over it, and your life is unmanageable.

    Waving, white flag at wine bottle I consumed last night.:o I surrender.
    Nothing bad happened ... I am just sick of feeling "crap". I want to decide when my "turning point" will be and NOT have it decided for me because something "bad" has happened through drinking.

    I have 3 gorgeous little boys who kiss & cuddle and tell me I am the best mum in the world on a daily basis. Why would I want to miss any of this by being drunk. ? They will turn into "Kevins" before I know it:eek: My DH also kisses & cuddles me and tells me how lucky he is to have such a " gorgeous":confused: wife. I have it all ...why throw it away,.


    DH and I are a bit like " Jack & Vera" ..we bicker on a daily basis but only ever have blazing rows when drunk.:o Last night I was watching " Come Dine with me"( I LOVE it). He says " do we have to watch this rubbish" . " yes" I said without looking at him. A drunk me , would have stormed off upstairs in a huff and " divorced "him at least 3 times.:o Stupid or what:confused:

    On a final note. .. Last night DH said to me " If you stop drinking will I still get my leg over ?:rolleyes: I replied " if you carry on looking at me over your glasses like my dad does then ... I wouldn't bank on it";)

    Right off to catch up on what you lot have been up to.:p

    40SM:D
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    ...& I won! :A

    Feel so pleased with myself! :)

    *pirouettes off to change sig* :D
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • honeybear wrote: »
    ...& I won! :A

    Feel so pleased with myself! :)

    *pirouettes off to change sig* :D

    Well done , you !!:T

    40SM:D
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    We bears shall stick together Btw do you like marmalade sandwiches or do you stick mostly to Honey?

    Have to admit that I'm more of a savoury bear... :o
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    On a final note. .. Last night DH said to me " If you stop drinking will I still get my leg over ?:rolleyes: I replied " if you carry on looking at me over your glasses like my dad does then ... I wouldn't bank on it";)

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
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