The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

jujugaboo

Sorry mrsh, hope you take some time and have a cry, i did everytime. Its such a hard process. Be good to yourself and OH.

Primmer

So sorry mrsH - it's so horrible to get a bfn after treatment and so allow yourself time to heal and allow yourself tears and anger and any other emotion no one can say what you should feel so make sure you and mrH look after each other - sending the biggest of hugs to you xx

TTC40

Sorry to hear this MrsH.

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TTC40

Can I show you something & see what you think?

http://www.flickr.com/photos/80973568@N07/

becca0417

Wow!!!!!!!! Congratulations!!!!!!!

Peonie

I think someone is pregnant! And I'm really hoping it's yours and you are not pulling my/our leg/s.

Congratulations.

EverTheOptimist

Congratulations TTC, that's amazing. Fingers crossed its a sticky one. So made up for you. xxx

fluffnutter

TTC40 wrote: »

Can I show you something & see what you think?

http://www.flickr.com/photos/80973568@N07/

Aaaaaarrrrrrggghhhh! That's so exciting! Congratulations

We said you had a shy one didn't we? I'm surprised you got a BFN then a 2-3 the next day(?) on a digi.. what was the first test? If the levels are high enough for a digi to give you 2-3 why didn't you get a line on the previous test? Seems like a rubbish test to me.

Or... your levels are shooting up really quickly because IT'S TWINS.

mrshappy

Aaaaaaaa, ttc40 that is brilliant, congrats xxxx

TTC40

Thanks all.

Fluff - you have really scared me!

It does seem odd that it has got to today to make an appearance - 17 DPO.

The BFN was on an IC.

I got a BFP this morning on an IC. I also had a first response in - got sent a couple once with OPKs.

I had p'd in a pot & did the IC, didn't think anything had showed so threw the contents of the pot away. Then I saw the second line so had to squeeze a bit more out to do the first response - which showed 2 lines.

OH was away so no-one to tell.

Bought the digi on the way home.

When OH got in I told him to close his eyes as I had a present. I put the test in his hands. He was shocked - I had told him on Tuesday that I wasn't - because I had tested.

It's bittersweet for him after the bereavement last week.

We are both a bit shell shocked.