The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

MadDogWoman_2

Hugs to all,

Jealously of friends and colleagues is perfectly normal, I actually had to drop contact with one of my friends as she had 3 children very quickly, during my hardest days.

I've had colleagues notice that I didn't join in with conversations and just continued to work.

Lots of dust and hugs.

I'll cross my fingers that you all your dreams are fulfilled.

toniq

QQ loadsof luck today hope u r ok xx

Still feel sick as a dog, I don't recall feeling so nauseaous in other Ivf's, I know i do react badly and madly to meds always have done, consultant see's that as good as It means the meds do have the effect they are meant to.

I have to keep telling myself why we do this to our bodies, it's gruelling at the best of times.

Here's to a nice week for us all xxx

QQuaver

toniq wrote: »

QQ loadsof luck today hope u r ok xx

I went to the clinic, the doctor said I have mild case of OHSS, but hopes it gets worse (worse = pg):o

Still feel sick as a dog, I don't recall feeling so nauseaous in other Ivf's, I know i do react badly and madly to meds always have done, consultant see's that as good as It means the meds do have the effect they are meant to.

I have to keep telling myself why we do this to our bodies, it's gruelling at the best of times.

Is it the usual meds?
(((Hugs))).

Chocolate_Cookie_Monster

Toniq - Hope you feel better soon. Yes its crazy what we do to our bodies but its for a good cause and worth it in the end.

QQ - good news about your parents. I bet you were worried sick being so far away (er just realised the pun). I hope its gets worse as well if thats what you want too :rotfl:

Chickpea - I hope you don't have to pay all of the bill. Thats very poor on thier part if they are charging you for extras that you haven't partaken in.

Hugs to everyone else.

Well I am goodness knows how many days past ovulation. I think 2DPO but thats a wild guess. My nips (well just the one) is excruciatingly painful. I wish my body would be a bit more consistent each month as I seem to be gaining new pains/aches each month. Plus then the PMT.

I watched the Human Body yesterday (it was a BBC program on last week) and its about conception. They talk about how women are more attractive during the 5 days they are most fertile. I asked my OH if he finds me more attractive at certain times of the month and he said yes - the 3 weeks I am not shouting, screaming and crying :rotfl:
Seriously though it was a good program. And made me wonder how on earth ANYONE gets PG.
x

toniq

QI've never done buserilin as a nasal spray before, on fresh Ivf's i inject everything, I also didn't have the progynova pills x

Hope ur ohss gets worse xxxx

Ccm lol mine would be too scared to answer any question I ask at the moment as he wouldn't be sure if it is rational Toni or not asking xx


Ju how r u doing? xx

lisawood78

I hope that your OHSS gets considerably worse also, but in the nicest possible way!!
But it also doesn't mean bad news if it doesn't either of course.
Hold in there QQ x

QQuaver

My OHSS is getting better:(

Chocolate_Cookie_Monster wrote: »

I asked my OH if he finds me more attractive at certain times of the month and he said yes - the 3 weeks I am not shouting, screaming and crying :rotfl:

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

liloandstitch

Hi, loads of chat, have read it all and promptly forgotten it again - hopeless!

Havent got a date for starting. Still havent had a visit from AF - thats over 8 weeks now! Scan the other week was fine so god knows what is going on. Ive given up trying to work it out. (And no, Im not pregnant!)

Hugs etc as appropriate! Catch up later - lilo

jujugaboo

toniq wrote: »

Ju how r u doing? xx

Still here hanging on, sorry not been posting not felt up to it. Been a bit down over the weekend especially as we had nothing to do, I felt a bit lost. I have my appointment Wednesday afternoon at the new clinic so I am hoping that will help and start looking at my immune system.

I watched the human body programme - it makes me think how does anybody get pregnant too! Don't you just hate it when people say 'he only needs to look at me and I get pregnant.' :mad:

nichart20

QQ glad the OHSS is getting better good luck for OTD x

CCM I watched that and it amazed me how anyone does too :eek: it seemed such a effort for them to get there, lol @ your OH, good luck for this month x x

Lilo Hope Af turns up soon so you can get started x x

Juju hope the appointment goes well wed x x

Toniq hope the sickness gets better maybe your just getting prepared

I am a bit miffed today I choose the clinic I wanted to go to based on the brilliant reputation of the immune specialist that was there and I have found out today he is leaving to open a new clinic with Zita West in London, I don't know what to do now I really wanted him and not sure if he will fit me in before he leaves and still no smiley face on test so don't think I will OV this month