The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

lilymay1

Hugs Becca. If it gets you the end result, it's worth it.

I agree with what everyone else said re:HSG. I won't be rushing to have another one but it's nothing to worry about. Just remember to try and relax as being tense makes it more painful. I also drove home straight after and was fine. I can't understand why you didn't have one before clomid? Seems odd that procedure differs so much around the country.

becca0417

Lily may I didn't have one before clomid as I've had my tubes checked before and everything was fine.

Thanks for the kind words, I honestly feel so much better now. Their leaflet is awful & makes it sound horrible!!

good_vibes

*hugs* becca, we get our hopes up every month, to keep us positive and hopefull. Even after the 1+ year/s of ttc .
Had my HSG recently. Again as the other ladies said, would not rush to get one soon.
It's all worth it to jump through the hoops.
Talking of which, OH has already had his next appointment for Urology. Got a feeling they might offer him a op.
Poor !!!!!! has already had an op this year and fed up.

tea_lover

So apparently it's national "shove your bump in my face" day.

becca0417

Huge hugs tea xxxx yesterday I walked out of church and I've just made DH come home from a day out as I couldn't cope with the amount of pg people/babies/general happy family business xxx
Be kind to yourself today

tea_lover

Hugs becca x. Glad it's not just me that's walked out of church! I did that a few weeks back, & the next few times I felt like I was gritting my teeth to get through it. Yesterday was the first time in quite a while I actually felt glad to be there.

onestep

Thought I was over the 'feeling sad at FB announcements' .. It appears not

Oh well. Have opened wine. Cheers!

Part_Mouse

Hugs to all that need them,I to am feeling really low, ovulation induction really doesn't agree with me

becca0417

tea_lover wrote: »

Hugs becca x. Glad it's not just me that's walked out of church! I did that a few weeks back, & the next few times I felt like I was gritting my teeth to get through it. Yesterday was the first time in quite a while I actually felt glad to be there.

I had a meltdown on the way as I'd had a bfn in the morning then when we turned up I saw it was a christening. Every single hymn grated me and it just got too much. Hopefully it'll get easier.

How are u doing? Xx

tea_lover

becca0417 wrote: »

I had a meltdown on the way as I'd had a bfn in the morning then when we turned up I saw it was a christening. Every single hymn grated me and it just got too much. Hopefully it'll get easier.

How are u doing? Xx

Yeah it was a christening the time I walked out too. It was the morning I'd got a really faint line (3 days after the first +ve) and I absolutely knew things were going wrong. I'd spent an hour bawling my eyes out, pulled myself together to get to church then saw a christening which was just the final straw.

Hope the rest of your day and weekend went better xx.