The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

fluffnutter

bigzippy, absolutely, totally, completely made up for you

I think you should cancel the fertility appt. The best outcome obviously being you simply don't need it. Even if things don't go to plan (I hope you don't think me too blunt by even mentioning it) I don't think you'd be in a good place, physically or mentally, to kick start fertility treatment. Don't think you're 'tempting fate' either by cancelling - that kind of thinking's just nonsense.

The best news! I'm really pleased for you

Loved the pic too

Primmer

BZ - omg I have only just seen this. So pleased for you, I have tears of joy at such great news :j:j

TeamLowe

BigZippy that's the first announcement that's made me squeal, then cry, DH was very concerned lol

Such huge massive congratulations, enjoy keeping it a secret, it's a lovely one to have x x

PS just goes to show them evil doctors might be right about weight loss, you've done amazing well on that front and now have the ultimate reward <3

becca0417

Bz is it worth phoning your FS? Mine has said when I get pregnant they will give me an early scan

angeltreats

Couldn't stay away from the sticks this morning...

BFN. Of course it was.

BZ I agree with Becca, give your FS a call.

becca0417

Angel treats huge hugs for bfn its so hard xxxx

angeltreats

Thanks Becca x

Just realised I was posting on the wrong thread, I normally only lurk on this one!

lucyloo77

BZ, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! That's fabulous news, I'm really pleased for you!

TTC40

BZ - absolutely amazing news. Hope you have an uneventful 38 weeks ahead!

I hope your GP will refer you for an early scan but if they don't, you can always go private just for a scan http://www.thisismy.co.uk/ is one company, but there's plenty more about.

I had scans at 5.5 & 6.5 weeks. The first one was just to check it was not eptopic - as I had had surgery to clear blocked tubes the FS said there was an increased risk. There was no heartbeat at the first scan so he said to have another one the following week. As I was private I could have as many as I wanted (only £180 a time for scan & appt!) but the second one was the one which made me cry! I suppose what I am saying is that if you are going to have one early scan, I would have it after 6 weeks. I also had another one at 8/9 weeks for reassurance.

QQuaver

OMG OMG OMG Bigzippy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:j
I was away for few days and the first post I see this!
I've done the congrats post on the TTC forum, took me few seconds to remember how I did it:think::D

I'm so very excited for you!
I will be stalking you until the birth, you can't hide from me:p