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Trying For a Baby III

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  • sexki11en
    sexki11en Posts: 1,286 Forumite
    To me it looks like you ov'd on CD13 or 14, so I honestly wouldn't worry about it. FF does these things sometimes and its only after charting for a few months that you can tell if its talking b*llocks or not ;) If you put your other signs in it can use them to make a more accurate ovulation date, that really does help. Plus it helps us chart stalkers ;) Hopefully you'll catch and not have to worry at all about it though :D

    I know its hard to tell your cm because of the bding, but potentially *far* too much TMI coming up if you get your cm and stretch it between your fingers if it is ewcm and not semen it will stretch, thats how you can tell it apart. Also ewcm will clump in water while semen will dissolve. Manky yes, but you can tell them apart that way :o

    Hope that helps a bit :) xx

    Bitzer, thank you.

    I've spent all day in a fouler, so angry that we missed it. Even a BFN wouldn't have been so bad as at least we would have tried, but this month just feels like a wasted effort now. When I said earlier I could cry, what I meant was, I did. Lots :o

    I think I'm going to invest in some OPK's as well as temping. Might have a fighting chance then.

    I feel a right numpty getting so upset on what is only our second month trying, but everyone around me has what I want and i've never been very good at waiting.

    Anyway, on a more positive note......Catw0man (that was my first ever ID on yahoo chat you know. Still forms part of my e mail address lol) CONGRATULATIONS :T Heres to a sticky (!) healthy 8 months.

    SK x
    After 4 years of heartache, 3 rounds of IVF and 1 loss :A - we are finally expecting our miracle Ki11en - May 2014 :j

    And a VERY surprise miracle in March 2017!
  • lauzjp
    lauzjp Posts: 415 Forumite
    dupe post off 'ttc when it's just not happening' but I wanted to ask opinion on here too -

    A few weeks ago I did a test and it said I was pregnant. We decided to celebrate by er, 'making sure' /more bms, and lo, after having some brown d/c and a bit of spotting I just didn't have time to go to the doctors, I did another test and it said not pregnant, so I assumed I wasn't anymore... then for some reason I decided a couple of days later to do another test and it said I was still pregnant? I did another test this morning, and despite the little bit of yellow d/c it said yes, I was pregnant - I still can't believe it, so am going to have to make time to go to the doc!

    I did a google for yellow d/c and it seemed pretty common and not too alarming - anyone had any experience of this?
  • 1more?
    1more? Posts: 352 Forumite
    Thank you all,
    Ali & becs your both so kind thank you
    this ttc business is an emotional roller coaster
    hope your feeling better today ali & sexki11en
    lauzjp not sure i can help but did you use different brand tests & how long between tests???

    i just want af to show up now please so it can be out of the way for another month:mad::mad::mad:
  • Lauralou
    Lauralou Posts: 983 Forumite
    edited 1 November 2009 at 11:24AM
    Morning everyone
    lauzjp cant really help you, i think going to the doctors could help and hopefully they will do a pg test. Did you test at different times of day and with the same brand of test?!Can i just say online at 5.47am on a sunday, could you not sleep or just got in from a night out?!!

    :eek::eek:i was up at 8.30 on a sunday!i want to go back to bed.
    Well im off to my nans today as mum toke her the doctors on friday and mum said she can see that she is starting to go down hill a bit.

    On a ttc front, i had a nice bath last night, made an effort and shaved my (hairy) legs!so got into bed last night and we both fell alseep!!:rotfl::rotfl:, we better do it tonight, i dont want to miss me OV!!

    Oh we won the euromillions!!! £14.40!!wooo

    Hope everyone is having a relaxing sunday, its raining where we are:-(
  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    spotting has got heavier, so guess af deffo on its way.
    i woke early this morning, made a cuppa tea, and made the decision to stop trying ttc for a while, as its gettting too stressful, and disappointing every month, just two hours later, i've changed my mind, i want a baby so badly :o
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • sexki11en
    sexki11en Posts: 1,286 Forumite
    Awww thank you 1more. As it happens...... lol.

    Woke up this morning, took temperature, input to FF and would you know - it changed again and put me back to OV'ing on day 12 (which is when we were at it like bunnies :p)

    Why it had it's hissy fit, I don't know but glad it's back to normal today. AF due on Friday so not long for me to wait now......

    SK x
    After 4 years of heartache, 3 rounds of IVF and 1 loss :A - we are finally expecting our miracle Ki11en - May 2014 :j

    And a VERY surprise miracle in March 2017!
  • Lauralou
    Lauralou Posts: 983 Forumite
    shazrobo wrote: »
    spotting has got heavier, so guess af deffo on its way.
    i woke early this morning, made a cuppa tea, and made the decision to stop trying ttc for a while, as its gettting too stressful, and disappointing every month, just two hours later, i've changed my mind, i want a baby so badly :o

    Shazrobo sounds like you need a hug so ((hug)). Dont worry you will have times where you feel so up and down, you want to wait but then you want a baby, I do think it is natural to feel like this, suppose its just a part off ttc.
    Hope you are ok
  • 1more?
    1more? Posts: 352 Forumite
    edited 1 November 2009 at 11:50AM
    sexki11en glad to hear your feeling better
    do you think we get stressed because we know to much??????
    sometimes i just wish i was more nieve, knowing ov dates & when af is due to the day is just enough to drive us insane, and ss well no wonder we all are having breakdowns :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    im bringing my pma back last month i had lots of it and we got 8 bfp
    PMA PMA PMA :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:(better work on me this month)
  • Courgette
    Courgette Posts: 3,242 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Combo Breaker
    Morning ladies! :hello:An absolutely fantastic number of BFPs I see - well done :dance:

    Well, I'm officially a married lady :love: Had an amazing day and an amazing honeymoon - I want to do it all over again! Not got our photos back yet but here's a taster:

    n789169197_1294.jpg

    This is just after the ceremony which I giggled through all the way.

    Will give lots more info soon but need to go to the Supermarket - talk about down to Earth with a bump!

    xxx
    Updating soon...
  • gill_81uk
    gill_81uk Posts: 2,851 Forumite
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    lauzjp wrote: »
    dupe post off 'ttc when it's just not happening' but I wanted to ask opinion on here too -

    A few weeks ago I did a test and it said I was pregnant. We decided to celebrate by er, 'making sure' /more bms, and lo, after having some brown d/c and a bit of spotting I just didn't have time to go to the doctors, I did another test and it said not pregnant, so I assumed I wasn't anymore... then for some reason I decided a couple of days later to do another test and it said I was still pregnant? I did another test this morning, and despite the little bit of yellow d/c it said yes, I was pregnant - I still can't believe it, so am going to have to make time to go to the doc!

    I did a google for yellow d/c and it seemed pretty common and not too alarming - anyone had any experience of this?

    Hi lauz, sorry to but it, just lurking from the pg thread - can't quite let go!! I'm 14 weeks today and I have been having yellow discharge right the way through. Pretty sure I never got it before. I did have some brown spotting at 5 and 8 weeks as well which I got checked out as midwives put the frighteners on me, but everything was fine. I;ve googled for both many times and they def seem pretty common. I mentioned the yellow dc to nhs direct when I rang about the spotting but as I had not other symptoms of an infection they just brushed it off!

    Did you do the test that was -ve when your urine maybe wasn't as strong?
    Mummy to Thomas born April 27th 2010 8lb 5oz
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