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  • polkadot
    polkadot Posts: 1,867 Forumite
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    Oh Courgette like Katy says: dont bear yourself up about it.but I do agree with the others that if I were you Id throw myself into the wedding planning. I wish we could get marrried before ttc...but the one thing that I insist on is having my dad walk me down the aisle and they just cant afford to make two trips (obviously another grandchild is their priority) so we are aiming to have bub first, then wedding and christening together.
    Emmzy can you come visit my house for a bit? Ill put BB on if you need motivating :D

    DF is now home, some thing (CAFC) for which I am grateful.
    Ive been reading the thread to him and he says he is grateful for this thread (as I am) because it helps him remember that we are not alone-he says, Emmzy that what you said to your MIL is something I would say (although not my MIL because she inspires me).
    He's also just given me something to add to my PMA (more gratefulness (is that a word) )...he has said he knows how much I want to start batch cooking etc, so now that "they" have moved out of the garage, he thinks we should clear out the shed and turn it into a pantry :jIve been reading up on batch cooking and cant wait to try, and think of the savings I could make. I put another £20 into my ISA earlier today and its just a Yay feeling. So again, I am grateful for my DF who always seems to know just how to bring me back to me. So whilst I still want to be in my dark mood for a little bit, I do have a new focus now to distract me.
  • CAFCGirl
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    Awww Polka hun, I am grateful for you to have your DF

    xx

    Mine is pretty good today as well.... perhaps he DOES have a sixth sense about these things LOL
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  • Hi everyone, just popped in to say hello.
    I'm sorry that so many people are feeling down at the moment, I'm sending loads of virtual hugs and PMA. I'm feeling quite low at the moment, don't really know why. My theory is that it's that time of the year when if I was still a kid I would have to go back to school - I reckon my subconscious doesn't realise I've grown up yet!
    ;) Working hard in the hopes of being 'lucky' ;)
  • kindofagilr
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    Morning everyone,
    I'm on 6dpo and keep snapping at DH. Whoops:o Not my fault he annoys me:rolleyes: Although I don't have any valid reason to snap at him:o:o
    I've also got tender nipples & boobs and feel completely shattered, even though I went to bed at my normal time:confused:
    God, I'll drive myself crazy with ssing and tbh I'm not convinced we've done it this month, dunno why :confused:

    Anyhoo, I have a long day of cleaning ahead of me, oh the joys:rolleyes: Wonder how long I can avoid it for?? Think I may have to get creative with my procrastination:rotfl::rotfl:

    Ooooo found this ticker on MMC...thought it was really sweet:D But had to copy & paste coz I don't think the codes work on here:confused:


    ticker_ovcdn.php?v=8,1,0,2009-7-29,32,14,5

    Sticky babydust to you al xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Seriously my boobs hurt from like 2dpo and I am pg

    Emmzy oh my god lol thats crazy lol so funny
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  • Evening all, just managed to catch up - you lot do yak on! :rotfl:

    in no particular order:

    Madmac - ((hugs)) honey. You did so well on keeping our chins up here and giving us PMA, I'm not surprised you need a break! Let try to do the same for you ;)

    Courgette - I'm sorry it was a BFN, but wait for AF, that's the only way you can really know.

    becs - you are so the voice of wisdom *bows down to you*

    polka - drop that "friend" like a hot potato, seriously...

    CAFC - you offering to start the PMA cheerleading squad?! :rotfl:

    nice-nursie - thanks, will try to stay cool ;)

    **kickety-kick** up all the OH's backsides that need it!!

    As for me, I passed my snowboarding lesson thing, so now I can go on the proper-growed-up slope with the big boys :D:D:D I am thoroughly sore though, but much less cold than last time!:cool:

    I don't have the energy to SS right now, I may just go to bed! :eek: I have been quite irrational and irritable today, but banged it out of myself on the slope and now I'm too tired to give a t*ss about the mess in the house or anything :o

    Night ladies, hugs and pma and stickybabydust to you all xx
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  • CAFCGirl
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    if a squad is needed, im up for cheering the way....

    well done on the snowboarding, thats amazing....
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  • bitzer_maloney
    bitzer_maloney Posts: 472 Forumite
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    edited 22 August 2009 at 11:01PM
    CAFCGirl wrote: »
    if a squad is needed, im up for cheering the way....

    well done on the snowboarding, thats amazing....

    you never all the times I was on my bum sliding backward down the slope :o Plus I nearly took out a little kid at one point :eek: Surely its insane to be teaching 5 year olds on the same slope at the same time as adults...

    As fer cheerleading, here you are then, here's your pompoms.. smiley-vault-misc-013.gif
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  • twinklie
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    Well done bitzer!! I'm pleased for you that you get to ride with us big boys and girls now! There'll be no stopping you soon!! I've not been since Jan and it's about this time of year I get itchy feet....hmmm...wanna go riding!
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  • CAFCGirl
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    woohoo poms poms and everything!!!

    Need to figure out a cheer now!!!
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  • Hi all
    Its good to know I'm not the only one who has dark moments...that sounds wrong but I'm hoping you all know what I mean:p

    All those wedding planning, gimmee details, I need detail people!!! I LOVE wedding planning and really really miss it:o:D So if any of you wanna brag feel free:D

    I'm a bit more positive today(more Meh! than moody) but still feel shattered, dunno how after a lovely long sleep:confused: And my boobs are killing me and have had to dig out a small bra to keep them in place a bit more than my others were doing:rolleyes: Still not convinced we've done it this month though and so had a few drinks at bbq last night, was very nice and luckily there were loads of people there so no-one picked up on my mood, except DH, but he was lovely when we got back and spoilt me and was generally bloody lovely:D:D Which makes me feel guilty for whining about him:rolleyes:

    Hope everyones ok and I can't remember whats been said so massive ((((HUGS)))) to those that need them:D

    I'm hoping our PMA returns soon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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