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Trying For a Baby III

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  • earthgirl
    earthgirl Posts: 3,762 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    Hugs to everyone who needs them, and just wanted to say I was feeling really down, until I read all of your positive posts, and giggled at the 14 times in nine hours! WOW!

    I did a test this morning, CD29 and it was BFN, I have been feeling crampy and upset so not good news. I'm going to forget about it this month, get organised and try with renewed vigeur next month!

    PMA needed :)!
    15/5/12 Paid off Mortgage 1 (£220k) Bought Dream House:www: Dec 13 - Mortage 2 -£116,508. 15/7/18 Mortgage Free Again :j

    Progress not Perfection
  • kindofagilr
    kindofagilr Posts: 6,825 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    Im sorry you two ladies for a BFN :(
    Debt £30,823.48/£44,856.56 ~ 06/02/21 - 31.28% Paid Off
    Mortgage (01/04/09 - 01/07/39)
    £79,515.99/£104,409.00 (as of 05/02/21) ~ 23.84% Paid Off

    Lloyds (M) - £1196.93/£1296.93 ~ Next - £2653.79/£2700.46 ~ Mobile - £296.70/£323.78
    HSBC (H) -£5079.08/£5281.12 ~ HSBC (M) - £4512.19/£4714.23
    Barclays (H) - £4427.32/£4629.36 ~ Barclays (M) - £4013.78/£4215.82
    Halifax (H) - £4930.04/£5132.12 ~ Halifax (M) - £3708.65/£3911.20

    Asda Savings - £0

    POAMAYC 2021 #87 £1290.07 ~ 2020/£3669.48 ~ 2019/£10,615.18 ~ 2018/£13,912.57 ~ 2017/£10,380.18 ~ 2016/£7454.80

    ~ Emergency Savings: £0

    My Debt Free Diary (Link)
  • twinklie
    twinklie Posts: 5,203 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    14 times in 9 hours!!! OMG! :eek:

    It's the other way round for us if I'm honest. OH would be on the job 24/7 if I let him but I'm the one that finds it more of a chore. He's been upset by my apparent lack of interest on more than one occasion. Now we are ttc I have to (this is going to sound awful) make sure I'm interested on days that we are unlikely to conceive - to make sure he doesn't think I just want him for a baby.

    I just don't appear to have a sex drive really. Tbh though, DH is very understanding about everything - even if he does get "lumpy" as he puts it constantly when at home. :rotfl:
    Reduction in daily mortgage interest since October 23 (new mortgage) - £2.36 July 25
    % of house owned/% of mortgage paid off. July 25 - 38.82%/31.66%
    MFiT-T7 #21
    MFW 2025 #2
    MF Date: Oct 37 Feb 37
  • Leopardlady
    Leopardlady Posts: 1,264 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I am not going to worry about bfn until af arrives or not, so still happy here :)
    Leopardlady
    Got married on the 26th April 08!!!!!!!:j:T

    Bumpy Bean was due 20th Nov 2010, born 15th Nov :j:j:T
  • emmzy
    emmzy Posts: 428 Forumite
    Morning All *Yawns* This piggy flu is making me sleep stupid hours! Thats me just up I was asleep over 12 hours :eek:
    The only reason Im awake is because Ive started having nightmares about my blood tests next week :( Im over the top terrified of needles in my dream this thing was about a foot long and the nurse was all creepy and evil looking just poking me going "ooh I missed the vein, Ill try again" *shivers* I kept tryin to convince OH that I cant go because I need to be quarentined but he pays more attention than I thought cos he knew it was only 5 days and the appointments not to wednesday!

    Glad I cheered everyone up with my disgustingly high labido lol Ill get some pics of the kitty on face book in a bit and you can all tell me how cute she is :rotfl:Im such a proud mummy!
  • smartie12
    smartie12 Posts: 7,658 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    (((HUGE HUGS))) to those who need them... hope you're feeling ok.

    Welllllllllllllllllllllll......

    I think I've OV'd twice!!!!!:eek::confused::rotfl:

    Last week I'm quite sure I got a positive on ov stick on Tues (even showed DH it), had a bit of CM day before and had spotting on the Weds all day... which I guessed was caused by OV. It was very early for me!

    Yesterday I had LOTS of CM... started off snot like then went EWCM:confused:
    I sat there thinking hmmmmmm when I started getting sharp pains....and thought OV pains:confused: So I did a OV stick and it was positive!!!

    BUT.... I have been feeling quite dizzy and headachy for a week now and not quite right. Been having tummy pains constantly but have to put that down to my Crohn's really. I don't know whats going on with my body:mad:

    And yes I know it's possible to get a postive on OV stick if PG but I'm pretending I don't know that!!:shhh:
    BLOWINGBUBBLES:kisses2: SMARTIE12
  • twinklie
    twinklie Posts: 5,203 Forumite
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    Can you ov twice that close together??
    Reduction in daily mortgage interest since October 23 (new mortgage) - £2.36 July 25
    % of house owned/% of mortgage paid off. July 25 - 38.82%/31.66%
    MFiT-T7 #21
    MFW 2025 #2
    MF Date: Oct 37 Feb 37
  • Testing List
    [STRIKE]Wed 12th Aug - snugglepants
    Sun 16th Aug - justmarried06[/STRIKE]
    20th/21st Aug - Leopard Lady?!?!?!?
    Mon 24th Aug - Polkadot
    Thu 27th Aug - Greenr
    Sat 29th Aug- Becs
    Sun 30th Aug - bitzer maloney
    Mon 31st Aug - Hassle1, CAFCGirl
    Thu 3rd Sep - Confuzzled
    Fri 4th Sep - Nunnygirl

    Hi all:hello: I'm having a meh day, its just one of those days thats neither here nor there! Probably something to do with the fact that yesterday I was convinced it was thursday:rolleyes: I can't tell you how disappointed I was when I realised.DOH!:doh:

    Smartie- u aint on the list hun....is it worth putting you on it;)
    Fingers crossed for you:D:D

    Emmzy hope you start to feel better soon and I will definitely indulge you as a proud mummy:D:D:D Ickle kittys are the CUTEST EVER:D
    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
  • smartie12
    smartie12 Posts: 7,658 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    After having a google last night some places says it is possible... other places says it's not possible. I even read about OVing twice can produce non identical twins!
    BLOWINGBUBBLES:kisses2: SMARTIE12
  • Leopardlady
    Leopardlady Posts: 1,264 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    smartie, i think the second time was prob the time you ov'd, i don't think it is very common to ov twice?? I would take your dates from the second time, as it sounds like more ewcm, and the positive on the stick, although the stick are not the most reliable things ( i have never had a positive??)

    Good luck and i hope it all works out :)
    Leopardlady
    Got married on the 26th April 08!!!!!!!:j:T

    Bumpy Bean was due 20th Nov 2010, born 15th Nov :j:j:T
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