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Trying For a Baby III

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  • becs
    becs Posts: 2,101 Forumite
    Thanks Emmzy may have to investigate next month! :rolleyes:
  • emmzy
    emmzy Posts: 428 Forumite
    They dont work for women... altho Im a raging sex pest anyway so it doesnt really matter and we managed 14 times in 9 hours...it burns btw dont try it lol

    Well worth £5 or whatever I payed for them though

    You wont ever be on here next month now Iv showed you them :rotfl:
  • becs
    becs Posts: 2,101 Forumite
    Well that sounds ok! Dh would struggle with 9 times in 14 days! Neither of us have a high sex drive so it can be a chore sometimes. definately not doing SMEP next month though. Still can't believe these girls that do it once and they're pg!
  • MadMac_2
    MadMac_2 Posts: 1,173 Forumite
    Good morning all, hope everybody is doing well.

    Emmzy - 14 times in 9 hours :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: Corr, I'm jealous :rotfl:

    Not much to report here, I have also only managed BD twice even though we were going for the SMEP as OH just doesn't feel up to it at the moment. We are a right old miserable pair together, but at least we have started to laugh with the irony of it all!

    Catw0man, I was thinking of you while away on Tuesday. Hope you are doing OK, x

    So sorry to read your news LilDevil, that is really carp. Hope to have you rejoin us very soon, x
  • becs
    becs Posts: 2,101 Forumite
    Ah MadMac good to see you back and finding some humour! There really is no better tonic. Many of our recent disastrous attempts do at least end up in tears of laughter thank goodness or think we'd be divorced by now!:rotfl:
  • Leopardlady
    Leopardlady Posts: 1,264 Forumite
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    Good morning ladies,

    Good to see you back Madmac :) laughing is great, the best medicine :)

    Well still nothing in the Leopard house, i tested again this am and it was bfn, so still waiting, i feel crap today, achy and like AF is about to burst onto the scene. I woke up so hot that even half an hour after being up i was sweating, i am sitting in my office baking!

    Emmzy, i son't think either of us could manage 14 times in 9 hours!!! I would also be 'punished' if i was to spike OHs tea!!! What fun, you made me smile :)

    Oh well, it is meant to be sunny here, but the clouds are now forming, i am sure it will be a great day and i hope you all have a wonderful day :)

    Loads of sticky baby dust to you all :):)
    Leopardlady
    Got married on the 26th April 08!!!!!!!:j:T

    Bumpy Bean was due 20th Nov 2010, born 15th Nov :j:j:T
  • polkadot
    polkadot Posts: 1,867 Forumite
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    edited 20 August 2009 at 9:05AM
    Morning all

    Very good to see you Madmac
    Becs your talk of family struck a cord...when my dad remarried, I was the only sibling still living in SA. My brother and step siblings all said they couldnt make the wedding and flew in the day before as a surprise. An extra table was set up in the middle of the hall for the 4 of them and special thanks were said for their presence. It was a double wedding (my stepmother and her sister). I got sat at a table with all my dads colleagues who kept asking whose guest I was? And every chrimbo my dad and SM would fly out here to spend it with my brother and left me on my own. I think because I look so much like my mum I bare the brunt of her behaviour. But now that Im here with DF life is so different, I have my own family traditions now-and my life is blessed. So much so that even my brother has started wanting to spend time with me.
    Anyway, Im feeling a bit better this morning-although I also feel AF is trying to come which is depressing. I couldnt sleep last night so I came downstairs and decided to turn on the wii fit. I was really nervous because the first thing coach said to me was "do you know its been 104 days since I last saw you":eek:Thats more than three months. Anyway the last time I was on my fit age was 48....last night it was....30:jwhich is also my real age so yay! Then when he checked my BMI Id come down from 30 something to 29. ..overweight from obese (not that I believe BMI is a very accurate measurement. But I've lost 8lbs since I was on last:j So Im guessing the move has made me more active. Its the only thing thats changed really-Im eating much of the same. I also had my water quota yesterday and am going to try again today. Definitely has given me a bit of PMA. So Im off to do some cleaning whilst I have the nergy:)

    ETA: DF also shed some light on my clothes trouble.(remember, nothing fits me), he thinks my problem is one of two things taking the weight loss into account) 1. because ive not been drinking enough water-Ive been retaining...and 2. we got a new dryer recently which has an "extra function" which Ive been using. He thinks its shrunk all my clothes....What thinks you?
  • jacqhale
    jacqhale Posts: 312 Forumite
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    Morning ladies, Becs and Emmzy I can't tell you how much better you have made me feel this morning. Sometimes I feel like a bit of a fraud being on the ttc thread cos although we want another baby the biggest problem is mine and dh's relationship has always been him not really wanting it. I have quite a high sex drive but he just doesn't. He says he wants me but then never does anything and makes me feel so rejected and lonely. We had a very rough year last year (3 times in 12 months:eek: and we barely spoke and nearly split up). Anyway we went to Relate and worked through it and things are so much better now and we always wanted a brother or sister for DS. But the old problem still remains .... it's getting better but still only once or twice a week if I'm lucky. I just don't know what to do about it cos getting upset doesn't help but making the advances when he makes me feel really undesirable is hard. These pills might work cos he says the will is there but sometimes the little man isn't IYSWIM .... I don't see how we will ever get pg if we're not doing it regularly and it's starting to get me down that we've been trying for nearly 6 months and it only took 6 weeks before. I feel like I can't go to the dr's cos the first thing they will ask is if we're 'doing it' regularly and we can't say in all honesty that we are.
    Oh I'm sorry to moan but it's good to get it off my chest. Maybe those pills might make a difference - do you have to get medical advice first??
    Thanks ladies, sorry for TMI x
  • Leopardlady
    Leopardlady Posts: 1,264 Forumite
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    Oh jacqhale, i understand how you feel, my and oh spent a few months with him not doing the deed and me gagging for it! Not saying it has worked despite this, but i think there are only a few on here who's Oh are as keen as they are in the bding department ( the myth that men want it more than women eh?)

    Also my bf had a very similar problem to you last year, she called me regularly to complain that her oh was always too busy and she was feeling neglected. He obviously did something right as she is now over 30wks! :)

    All i can say is well done for getting the help, and please try and relax about it, it does only take one time at the right time, so even a couple of times a week, is more than i get, we have done 5 times this month i think and we are on cd32?? so you never know :)

    Keep smiling and very sticky baby dust to you all :):):):)
    Leopardlady
    Got married on the 26th April 08!!!!!!!:j:T

    Bumpy Bean was due 20th Nov 2010, born 15th Nov :j:j:T
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