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  • Evansangel
    Evansangel Posts: 6,791 Forumite
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    EA - I really hate my job too at the moment. There's only been one good thing about it recently and that's my manager, and now she's leaving. I've been on holiday for a couple of days but I have to go back on Thursday and I'm seriously dreading it.

    I cry every morning before i have to leave for work. And i feel that if anyone ever feels that way about something they shouldn't be doing it. But i have no choice.

    My manager is a twt. When i called to tell him i had swine flu and wouldn't be in, he sounded realy !!!!ed off at me. Its not my fault :(

    I prob caught it from someone at work, loads of people have it there ><

    Woohoo! OH has ought me McDonalds :D See you later!! :) xx
  • kindofagilr
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    Evansangel wrote: »
    Haha i hardly go on the pregnancy thread (only been on more recently cause i have loads of questions about my swine flu and being pregnant lol), my mobile broadband is poo and very slow and MSE takes ages to load. I do lurk on here alot though.
    Dont post sometimes as i feel guilty that i had a bfp and some of you dont :o

    My scan is 29th August i think, its not this Saturday but next saturday at 3:20pm, i'll be 12+1 then :eek:
    It is going quite quick yeah!! Well this week hopefully will go slow as im off sick for a week and i dont want it to fly by. I hate my job at the moment :(

    How are you? xx

    Do you know what I think we are actually going to be the same lol

    I think I actually OV'd on 20th June instead of 18th June, so I think I am 10+3 not 10+5.

    Will they know that at the scan like even if its just a couple of days different?
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  • nunnygirl
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    Glad to hear you've talked it through with your friend Smartie :T
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  • kindofagilr
    kindofagilr Posts: 6,825 Forumite
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    Yes me too :) whats the baby's name?
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  • Evansangel wrote: »
    Dont post sometimes as i feel guilty that i had a bfp and some of you dont :o

    My scan is 29th August i think, its not this Saturday but next saturday at 3:20pm, i'll be 12+1 then :eek:
    And so you should:p Nah I'm onlyj oking:D, don't feel guilty tho tbh I like to know how you're all getting on...gives me the heads up on what to expect;):D You better come back with your 12wk pics too:D
    EA - I really hate my job too at the moment. There's only been one good thing about it recently and that's my manager, and now she's leaving. I've been on holiday for a couple of days but I have to go back on Thursday and I'm seriously dreading it.
    And me! I hate mine too, an office full of blokes who are @rses and no work todo, hence being on here all day:rolleyes:
    Would love to leave but can't afford it and not worth going else where coz of the job climate & coz of ML pay
    smartie12 wrote: »
    I've just had a long text conversation with friend and she's apologised :)

    I ended it by saying let me know when I can visit... TBH I don't think I could deal with seeing baby right now. I'm ever so hormonal... the tears keep on coming!!
    :j:j:j
    Let the tears out....better out than in my Dad always says...but he's talking more about bottom burps than crying:o:rotfl:
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  • And me! I hate mine too, an office full of blokes who are @rses and no work todo, hence being on here all day:rolleyes:
    Would love to leave but can't afford it and not worth going else where coz of the job climate & coz of ML pay

    Absolutely ditto!
    ;) Working hard in the hopes of being 'lucky' ;)
  • Carp innit Red! Once I do get my bfp I aint coming back! Will probably do chilminding to see us through and hopefully do a degree at some stage to...then again it all boils down to money, or lack of it in my case:rolleyes:
    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
  • I dream of not going back, but the b~ggers have included a proviso into our maternity terms - if I don't go back for three months after my leave is up, I have to pay them back my half pay for the maternity leave period!! As a result my escape plan has to include going back for three months after!
    ;) Working hard in the hopes of being 'lucky' ;)
  • I dream of not going back, but the b~ggers have included a proviso into our maternity terms - if I don't go back for three months after my leave is up, I have to pay them back my half pay for the maternity leave period!! As a result my escape plan has to include going back for three months after!

    Crafty bugg3rs aren't they:eek: Better double check mine now!!! This company get away with the bare minimum that the law allows:mad::mad::mad:
    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
  • jacqhale
    jacqhale Posts: 312 Forumite
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    Hey redstar, at least going back for 3 months is worth it for extra maternity pay. I will get nothing but the basic and knowing how we struggled last time it won't be pretty!!!!
    My sister gets 6 MONTHS FULL PAY - but she works for the Inland Revenue and has it very cushy!!!

    Sorry you guys are unhappy in your jobs - been there and it's not nice! I like the job I'm doing at the moment but then I would like anything after having been made redundant twice in 6 months:eek: But I wish the guys were a bit more fun - all blokes aged between 40 and 60! The only woman is on holiday and she sits downstairs!
    I do have my own business as well and the plan is to wait until it's doing well and give up work to concentrate on that but at the moment it doesn't pay enough - BOO!
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