Eviction Looming - UNFAIR!!!!

silvercar

Please answer if you are behind with your rent, or have you told the landlady that you may have difficulty paying the rent?

ILW

clutton wrote: »

is this for real ?

Think a call to Jeremy Kyle may be in order.

Gorgeous_George

OP, it is time to get some balls.

Make list of all the things that you need to resolve and agree the list with your wife. Then the three of you need to sit down and clear the air. Any agression of bullying is out of order and a Court may grant a restraining order if necessary. You are in the right.

It is perfectly reasonable to give your B-I-L notice to leave providing he is not named on the tenancy agreement. Making him do so against his will may be difficult. Be strong and calm and tell him he needs to find alternative accommodation. Maybe the landlady can help.

Ultimately, you do not owe your B-I-L anything. Least of all free board and lodgings!

Talk to your wife and agree a course of action.

Good luck.

GG

simon4amiee

silvercar wrote: »

Please answer if you are behind with your rent, or have you told the landlady that you may have difficulty paying the rent?

Always paid my rent on time.

barnaby-bear

simon4amiee wrote: »

My wife and brother in law have both lost their jobs, as a result i stopped my brother in law from eating as my wife and my son are my respobnsibility, not my brother in law. He works at the pub

.... how about divorce - seeing as the BiL comes with the wife

delain

I would
a) get out of there as soon as possible, the rent of a nice 1 bed flat will be cheaper than a scabby 2 bed one
b) report this to your local council housing department in case anyone tries to get council assistance with the depsit/ rent then the council can warn them that the flat is no good. I did this with my flat which was so damp my furniture disintegrated and the landlord left me with no windowsills and half a wall and a broken RSJ holding up the flat upstairs when i moved and now they have the address on record and warn all potential HB tenants that the landlord is shocking maintenance wise and about the damp.
c) ask your BIL to leave and request the police to be present (they WILL do this if you think he will attack you) and then they will have on file that you don't want him there

pinkshoes

Surely even renting a cheap bed-sit or 1 bed flat with just the two of you as a temporary measure would be better than living with your brother in law???

pelirocco

jamespir wrote: »

im sorry but i find all this very hard to believe why not apply for a crisis loan if situation is that bad
and you say your brother in law lives there too demand he pays rent no matter how big he is or get him to earn his food by him doing the garden
you say youve stopped him eating if he dies i hope your conscience can take it and as for putting your furniture in the garden thats jsut silly

now who is silly:rolleyes: