** Daily Chat - Thursday 25th June**

Buffythedebtslayer

schoolrunmum wrote: »

She did open up-and had a good cry, and a rant too!
She wants to know if she should give her husband her "permission" to remarry...and who will check out her sons' girlfriends when he starts dating-make sure she good enough for him etc....

that is the definition heart break.

I am so sorry SRMxxxxxx

xx

schoolrunmum

Yes,several people have suggested similar things Bookie, I think she finds the idea good in itself, but feels starting one would be sort of admitting defeat that she's not going to fight it off and get well again. And (bad grammar,I know) she's not ready to throw in the towel just yet...

whatatwit

SRM, your friend is facing tough times and has been given a death sentence, she has every right to be angry.

My lot find it difficult to see beyond the end of their noses and are not happy with what they've got.
I think I mustn't have been as sympathetic to my moaning friend last time, she hasn't phoned me for a week or so.

Bunny, this is why I've not been posting, I'm feeling very sorry for myself and know that I'm a miserable self centred cow.

whatatwit

Me again....SRM, would it help your friend if you were to hold on the boxes for a while, rather than she keep them at home and risk her husband or family finding them?

schoolrunmum

Twitty,we are all entitled to wallow sometimes-it's just the depth that varies!
Right, I'm off to dry my hair and read in bed till DH returns from LHR....

Thanks for all your thoughts re BF.....SRM xxxxxx

Twitty-I think she needs to straighten her head out first, before she can start on that particular project!Of course I would hang onto them-shes just not ready to accept it yet..

sallyx

SRM there was a program on the TV a while ago that covered parents that were dying and the type of thing that the charity helped parents/family with. It was a fantastic programme and a celebration of life and preparing all the family. It certainly encouraged them all to stay positive as they had so many things they wanted to achieve together. I'll see if I can find the info on it