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dmg24

jennie09 wrote: »

Unfortunately there are certain people on here who shall remain nameless that simply cannot stop themselves from judging others, i think it makes then feel superior in some sort of sad way

Pot Kettle Black?

OrkneyStar

jennie09 wrote: »

Unfortunately there are certain people on here who shall remain nameless that simply cannot stop themselves from judging others, i think it makes then feel superior in some sort of sad way

Oh lets not go down that road again please .
This said, giving someone straight advice, which they may not want but need to hear, is not judgement if it is done tactfully and for the right outcome (i.e. to help the person!).

mummyfleming

you will all be happy to know i just walked 12 miles so i could pawn the jewellery I was bought for my 21st. i will do anything to provide for my daughter and husband. I used the holiday money to pay my outstanding bills so I would have a clean slate. Unfortnately other things occured. Thank you for judging me and I shall not be using this site again. You know how to make people feel worse.

jennie09

dmg24 wrote: »

Pot Kettle Black?

I dont judge anyone on here, i am on about the people who cant resist their sly little digs at single parents and people who are on benefits, sorry but if someone tells me i am more or less lying as to the reasons why i have to recieve ESA, then yes i will stick up for myself, get your facts straight please :rolleyes:

bestpud

mummyfleming wrote: »

you will all be happy to know i just walked 12 miles so i could pawn the jewellery I was bought for my 21st. i will do anything to provide for my daughter and husband. I used the holiday money to pay my outstanding bills so I would have a clean slate. Unfortnately other things occured. Thank you for judging me and I shall not be using this site again. You know how to make people feel worse.

Oh purlease!! :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

What a load of twaddle!

jennie09

OrkneyStar wrote: »

Oh lets not go down that road again please .
This said, giving someone straight advice, which they may not want but need to hear, is not judgement if it is done tactfully and for the right outcome (i.e. to help the person!).

There was a person yesterday who shall remain nameless, who wasnt being tactful, she was judging me and insinuating that i was lying as to why i recieve Esa, that is judgement but in a nasty way and uncalled for, i dont have to take that sort of abuse, as thats what it is basically

slightlymad99

If you hubby is in the forces (I know RAF can get it) you can get a Halfords Trade Card - saves loads. You can just pop into the store and show his ID card.

Zara33

jennie09 wrote: »

There was a person yesterday who shall remain nameless, who wasnt being tactful, she was judging me and insinuating that i was lying as to why i recieve Esa, that is judgement but in a nasty way and uncalled for, i dont have to take that sort of abuse, as thats what it is basically

Which you dealt with in DT yesterday :rolleyes: why drag it on this thread.

dmg24

jennie09 wrote: »

I dont judge anyone on here, i am on about the people who cant resist their sly little digs at single parents and people who are on benefits, sorry but if someone tells me i am more or less lying as to the reasons why i have to recieve ESA, then yes i will stick up for myself, get your facts straight please :rolleyes:

jennie09, your posts on all boards are open for anybody to read. Many of us are guilty of making judgments at times, after all we are human. However, you cannot pick at other people for making judgments when you do it a great deal more than most. If you need clarification on my point, please read your previous posts.

jennie09

Zara33 wrote: »

Which you dealt with in DT yesterday :rolleyes: why drag it on this thread.

I was simply replying to a persons comment in agreement, i didnt drag it on here but was agreeing with them :rolleyes: