Would you be concerned about your 18 year old talking

Pee

So it's not perverted if he's young but would be if he's old?

It's not so much that I think his fantasies are strange, just that it seems strange to me to be sharing them with someone he's never met on the internet. Strange doesn't mean harmful.

dmg24

lesley1960 wrote: »

yes i would class him as that , and yes there are loads of others who do the same ,

I wouldnt be happy , because you just know she is going to get hurt ,

But why would you class him as a pervert?

No one seems to be able to answer this!

MrsTinks

I guess I am a pervert - after all I met my hubby through online dating and discussed a lot of "personal" things with him online before I actually met him in person

Based on the pure facts you have given then NO he's not a pervert - for all we know he could have used an escort service once, wanting no strings and not being into one night stands where he might hurt someones feelings or even worse - they could be so drunk they really didn't know what they were doing etc... He may have had cam sex - heck for all you know he could be a swinger!!! :eek: SO WHAT???? He by the sounds of it has had consentual sex with other adults. Big deal! He's "done the deed" whilst looking at a cam and possible even shown himself in return... isn't that better than flashing innocent passers by in the park??? It's mutual after all...

Glen0000

honeypop wrote: »

Could I ask why? What specifically makes you think he's a pervert from what was said in the OP?

I'm not saying you're wrong, I am just curious which of these things that a lot of people do (except the mother battering) mean he should be classed as a pervert. Knowing what some of the lads get up to from DH's sports club (including the 18 years olds), there is nothing out of the ordinary here.

I think it all sounds very seedy. I am mid 30's and don't know anyone who has 3somes etc. Maybe it is an age thing, I wouldn't wnat my DD to be with a man who thought those kinds of things were ok. Says a lot about their attitude to women.

blue_ashleigh

How do you know he battered his mum, used prostitutes, web cam stuff?
Do you know him in person?

From what you've said he sounds very dodgy, but it depends how factual the information is and how reliable your sources are.

elaine373

This thread seems like a troll to me? or is that just me being overly suspicious?
If i am wrong then i am sorry and i wouldnt worry so much about the sexual side of things but i would be really concerned about the fact he has `battered` his mother.

dmg24

elaine373 wrote: »

This thread seems like a troll to me? or is that just me being overly suspicious?
If i am wrong then i am sorry and i wouldnt worry so much about the sexual side of things but i would be really concerned about the fact he has `battered` his mother.

They have been back online since and not commented further, so I would agree with you.