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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Oh god, I'd forgotten that I'd agreed to meet this guy for a coffee today. I don't feel up to dating at all, he seems really nice but I don't think we will hit it off. He's just rung, and I should have just been honest with him, so why the hell didn't I just say I didn't want to go??

    I don't want to do this dating thing any more. I hate it. :(
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »
    I can't believe how bad I feel. I was absolutely fine when I woke up. Now I have thrown up and can't stop shaking. and the pain is terrible

    is this normal girls? I am a bit worried.

    (sorry to any men present.)

    If this is how you normally are, then it's normal for you. Since you're asking the question - it doesn't sound normal for you.

    What have you eaten?
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Snaggles wrote: »
    Oh god, I'd forgotten that I'd agreed to meet this guy for a coffee today. I don't feel up to dating at all, he seems really nice but I don't think we will hit it off. He's just rung, and I should have just been honest with him, so why the hell didn't I just say I didn't want to go??

    I don't want to do this dating thing any more. I hate it. :(

    Then don't make it a date. Make it meeting someone for coffee. Done a few of those in my time and probably travelled further than you are.

    Go. Enjoy yourself. Thought you were complaining about being lonely without the kids? Well here's a bit of adult company.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • Toto
    Toto Posts: 6,680 Forumite
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    Snaggles wrote: »
    Oh god, I'd forgotten that I'd agreed to meet this guy for a coffee today. I don't feel up to dating at all, he seems really nice but I don't think we will hit it off. He's just rung, and I should have just been honest with him, so why the hell didn't I just say I didn't want to go??

    I don't want to do this dating thing any more. I hate it. :(


    Aww snags, go but don't think of it as a date, just a coffee with a new friend.
    :A
    :A
    "Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid" - Albert Einstein
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    LouiseJ wrote: »
    Hey Lenny, I will make it worth his while;):D

    You're going to make jam tarts?
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    Snaggles wrote: »
    Oh god, I'd forgotten that I'd agreed to meet this guy for a coffee today. I don't feel up to dating at all, he seems really nice but I don't think we will hit it off. He's just rung, and I should have just been honest with him, so why the hell didn't I just say I didn't want to go??

    I don't want to do this dating thing any more. I hate it. :(

    Why not postpone it Snaggles, you are probably still reeling from Friday night.

    You might feel more positive about him maybe next week sometime:confused:
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • System
    System Posts: 178,371 Community Admin
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    RIght Im off to crack on. Bye everyone and hope you get better BUffy
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  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
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    thanks girls, Mum looks a bit worried too. I just want to lie down. I have had it before there is normally more of a build up and it doesn't normally reduce me to tears though. but I am a week early? oh I don't know. lying down

    will check in again, sorry to worry you and thank you xxxxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    lennymfo wrote: »
    I tell you what ladies, hats off to you for this Aunt Flo milarky, I couldnt do it. Although Man-flu is now a proven illness btw :) Seriously. Hope you're not too bad Buffy

    I used to get PMT when I was with the XOH. If she had pains down below, I used to get it in the neck...
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    Stuff the dating Snags...why don't you ring him back and just tell him you can't be bothered - its not him its you....that sounds bad doesn't it..

    I couldn't be bothered dating now, I can only just be bothered with meself sometimes.

    Off out for a run to see if my chest can stand it......
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
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