A Payment A Day Part 4

Greenbynature

Fag_ash_lil wrote: »

Have just read your other post ..... if he's sat and worked the money out down to the last penny , i can't see him offering to treat you ....

Anyway it would take you hours to catch up on all the posts that you would miss !

Hmmmmmmmm how about the " doing " the chat lines with Julie and angelic to make some extra money ? :rotfl: ....

terri x

No Terri I can't see it either, if he wont pay for 1 quad there's no way he'd pay for another 3 :rotfl: trying not to make out he's a horrible git - he's not that bad really - his words is he's not tight just frugal :rotfl: his workmates call him a tight ar5e!!!
he has a daughter of 16 who lives with her mum so yes he pays for her and obviously gives her pocket money etc - he's not tight at all with his daughter funnily enough. She's just left school and is going on to college in september.

I keep forgetting about the free bingo on wednesday nights!:mad: must remember tomorrow!!!
:eek::eek::rotfl:to that idea of chat lines Terri - don't you know I'm a little :A :rotfl:

Greenbynature

Hi Sue
lol I don't think there's anyway on earth OH would let me control the money - I haven't made a good job of just my own so far!

I've shown him my snowball calculator before now and my bank statements, my income/outgoings and he thinks I'm stupid for getting myself into such debt and can't understand how I let it happen!!! He has no debt at all not even a credit card. Mr Perfect or what?? he's not very sympathetic!

Double_Trouble

Greenbynature wrote: »

Hi Sue
lol I don't think there's anyway on earth OH would let me control the money - I haven't made a good job of just my own so far!

I've shown him my snowball calculator before now and my bank statements, my income/outgoings and he thinks I'm stupid for getting myself into such debt and can't understand how I let it happen!!! He has no debt at all not even a credit card. Mr Perfect or what?? he's not very sympathetic!

Not sure about Mr. Perfect but he will be biting his nose off to spite his face if he doesn't pay and you don't go - although you can't go if there is no internet :rotfl:.

Money in our house is dealt with by me and it is ours but it is different if you are living apart.

He should be proud of how much you have paid off :T:T:T

Thats my pennyworth

DTxx

SueP19

We have a Mr Perfect at work and boy does he make me feel inadequte:mad:

That is until I remember that I have a beautiful DD who is 18, have been with faithful partner for 23 years. Been in severe debt at 21, lost a child, dug myself out of debt and bought a house by 30. Run my own business as well as work full time, run a house etc etc and all Mr Perfect does is go to work and home again!!!!!!!!! Women RULE :T:T

Yes Green, he may think you silly for having got in debt but its not something any of us choose to do, it happens and so does life. Next time he is a bit huffy, just remeber the sisters (Paul and Andy -honourary sisters, hehe)are with you and he wouldn't be able to cope as you have, then have a cat that got the cream smile on your face and he will wonder what the f**k is going on :rotfl::rotfl:

tomtombeanie

quick hi - off to nursery in a moment. exciting day as took the proceeds of the sealed tin to the post office this morning and swapped 45.50 for 70 dollars! woo hoo - that is the sum total of our spends until pay day

i control all the money in our house , we have a joint account for all bills, food etc but we also have our own accounts and we can do what we like with the money in those. i get "paid" from my DH once a month & although the majority of his wage goes straight to the joint account, he keeps some back so that he can have his own money and not always be checking with me. works for us! xx

Greenbynature

Double_Trouble wrote: »

Not sure about Mr. Perfect but he will be biting his nose off to spite his face if he doesn't pay and you don't go - although you can't go if there is no internet :rotfl:.

Money in our house is dealt with by me and it is ours but it is different if you are living apart.

He should be proud of how much you have paid off :T:T:T

Thats my pennyworth

DTxx

:rotfl::rotfl: nope no way can I go with no internet!!!
I think with money tho from what he's told me when he was with his ex, he controlled it, paid all the bills etc cos she was stupid with money as well (surprise,surprise!) I don't see myself living with him for some time yet, if ever to be honest - cos I like my own way too much :rolleyes: with living on my own for so long I actually like it, maybe I'm just set in my own ways too much (of course I'm far to young haha ) we'll see.

thanks DT I am quite chuffed with how much I've paid off just wish it was more but hey ho.

Greenbynature

SueP19 wrote: »

We have a Mr Perfect at work and boy does he make me feel inadequte:mad:

That is until I remember that I have a beautiful DD who is 18, have been with faithful partner for 23 years. Been in severe debt at 21, lost a child, dug myself out of debt and bought a house by 30. Run my own business as well as work full time, run a house etc etc and all Mr Perfect does is go to work and home again!!!!!!!!! Women RULE :T:T

Yes Green, he may think you silly for having got in debt but its not something any of us choose to do, it happens and so does life. Next time he is a bit huffy, just remeber the sisters (Paul and Andy -honourary sisters, hehe)are with you and he wouldn't be able to cope as you have, then have a cat that got the cream smile on your face and he will wonder what the f**k is going on :rotfl::rotfl:

wow sue our very own wonder woman go you :T:T

SueP19

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

No, the needs must when the devil drives

oh and that was the very edited version

newmum1

Hey folks, fell of the wagon a bit recently and been spending instead of padding, but i have given myself a kick up the a**e and need to get back on track.
So £35 to bro

Maz6

Hi All,

I've fallen off the pad waggon a bit recently so I'm back on it now and have started a spending diary too.

My PAD for today is £65