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Jakg

laura-1984 wrote: »

im not skimping on my hair so im not paying rent

Thats definately a unique LBM in the DFW board.

Burlesque_Babe

and the thread in the Arms has been locked...........not long before this one I feel.

OP - if your OH doesn't want or need you to pay the mortgage, you are truly lucky. However, to show courtesy, you should really be considering where you are spending the money instead, otherwise he could quickly grow tired of him working to keep a roof over your head whilst you get your hair cut and buy handbags.

Tustastic

sqwiggly wrote: »

I said you were coming across as a Brat. That is not calling you a Brat.

Look at how you have replied to the posters offering help... Not very nice, in my opinion.

I expected you to make that distinction.
Your comment 'came across' as abuse to me, which is why I reported it.

laura-1984_2

he doesnt mind as its his and his ex house so i dont/wont have any stake in it. I pay my share of bills and all the rest and my bag was my birthday treat

Burlesque_Babe

then good luck really.............but in a couple of years when haircuts, handbags and nights out equal a £10k debt staring you in the face on the same income, please remember the advice you were offered and please learn from the way you treated the same advice.

koopa_coffee

laura-1984 wrote: »

no connection the holiday was not on the cc and its not what im paying £100 too. My credit card debit is down to louis vuitton and my birthday nights out

Reminds me of a friend I used to have in primary school who insisted on having a 'Birthday Week'. Parties and presents for 7 days in a row.

laura-1984_2

i dont understant where you get this £10k of debt from

sqwiggly

Tustastic wrote: »

I expected you to make that distinction.
Your comment 'came across' as abuse to me, which is why I reported it.

Thats your opinion, but for the Mods to do something about if they choose. :cool:

Maybe you find the OP's posts polite and reasonable. I and many others do not.

laura-1984_2

I had a night out with friends, a night out with my oh and his friends and one with my family

Burlesque_Babe

laura-1984 wrote: »

i dont understant where you get this £10k of debt from

You have debt which is accruing interest and you aren't curbing, or wanting to hear advice on curbing your spending. It can only spiral upwards.