MSE Pregnancy Club XII

searching_me

tarajayne wrote: »

Omg, pictures, no way!!!!!!!!!! :eek:

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:x

money_maker_3

tarajayne wrote: »

Omg, pictures, no way!!!!!!!!!! :eek:

Oh OK, words are far better than pictures anyway
:rotfl::rotfl:

BeenieCat

money_maker wrote: »

Where have you been all day, I was worried about you
How are things ?

Aw thank you!! I love it here!

Well he's still here, i'm stupid i know, but i'm still making it clear i'm not happy as things are.

I may end up falling into the trap of believing things will change - but we shall see! He's been around me all day, attempting to run around after me in some obvious vain attempt to a*selick me.

I'm still confused, and still angry about the way he's been speaking to me.

On the other hand, i told him i want new baby to have my name whether we're together or not. He says it's fine but he contested it, he says am i embarrassed that people will see my kids have 2 different names. I said no i coulnd't give a monkeys about other people - i just said i don't want DS feeling odd one out or anything.

Anyway he's in no position at the moment to argue about about it, so i win

albionsarah

BeenieCat - I was reading your posts last night, me and OH both wanted to punch him for you.

Compared to some people on here, I have such an easy time. I don't know how you all cope!

money_maker_3

beenie, only you know if you are doing the right thing. We can only help you with the decision you make. Just please think carefully that you are letting him stay for the right reason and not just because you are scared of being alone. You have done it once before and we know you are strong enough to do it again if you needed to.
Make him go to relate, or set up a list of ground rules that he has to abide by or hes out !! And most importantly, stick to your guns !! Dont let him walk over you

money_maker_3

Oh, and still go to the GP !!! Just to be on the safe side and keep me happy

searching_me

sarah the saying when you have no choice you make do and get on with it springs to mind x

money_maker_3

albionsarah wrote: »

Hello it's my first ever post so not sure if it will work!? Have been following this thread for ages and had my 12 week scan today, first baby due 29th December!!!

I have added you to the list I did earler today rather than posting a new one

BeenieCat

Thanks Sarah! I can't say i feel worthy of the lovely comments from everyone on here as i chose to get pregnant to such a %&*$!!!

I do know i've been a !!!!! to him on occasions with my hormones raging, but the stuff he's said is unacceptable, just not sure how to follow it through. I still hate him for what he's done but am obviously being soft.

Am i setting myself up for a life of misery by not ending it now? Probably, but how will i ever know?? Arghhh i'm a mug!

albionsarah

money maker - thank you! can I just put MM or is that for regulars?? i am such a newbie! x