MSE Pregnancy Club XII

searching_me

tia i can totally relate to that (although it wasnt with someone online) but you basically describe how things happened when some poop happened between me and OH (very serious and dont wanna get in to it) im glad we worked at it or this little buddy im having a cuddle with now wouldnt be here x

Bear_family

tiamai_d wrote: »

Can I be resident chav then?

I picked a name for tha baba, shez gonna bee......

Chelsee Ibifa Cloe Rochelle Princess Pineapple

We could go into business with a market stall!:rotfl:

money_maker_3

Hi sami !!

Good to see you

tiamai_d

BeenieCat wrote: »

Thanks you, especially to Tia. I think when we're good we're really the best of friends but it feels like it's been a long time since we made each other laugh. Don't get me wrong we're not arguing 24hrs a day, but we used to have fun, he used to smile and be happy and that would make me smile and be happy.

Now it feels like he's never happy which constantly brings out the paranoid side of me, 'he doesn't love me/he's going to cheat/he's wishing he was still with ex/he regrets getting pg' etc etc and so it goes on.

I just feel like, if he got up one morning and was his old hyperactive happy self then his mood is infectious so i'd be same, but for some reason he can't have good moods transferred onto him!! (if that makes sense)

You can get it back, if it is what you both want. It just takes time. You need to get your OH talking and find out if he is willing to put the effort in (and it has to be 50/50, you have to try and overcome your hurt feelings for it to work too).

Hope it works out so your happy, whatever the outcome.

jennynoo

Beenie, I'm so sorry your having problems, it can't be easy especially when you are pregnant. I don't know what to say, I definitely no expert! But from my own experience some people seem to always have to work at their relationships but as mm says you shouldn't have to try all the time. Relationships are supposed to be partnerships where you support each other, work together and help each other achieve your aims. You have to work out if your relationship can be fixed would it be good enough that you would be happy at least more than half the time? Big hugs.

jennynoo

Skinty, so glad your ok, I wish we never had to get bleeds!

tiamai_d

Bear_family wrote: »

We could go into business with a market stall!:rotfl:

Hmmm, what should we sell? What will we call it?

BeenieCat

thanks all, i think i'll just try and talk to him tomorrow when we have time, it's just so hard talking as it always gets heated when it's about splitting up!!

Anyway, i'm still making tickers, yes i'm a geek :rotfl:

[img]http://www.pregnology.com/preggoticker2/777777/000000/My pregnancy/12/12/2009.png[/img]Make a pregnancy ticker

cazscoob

we have also had our ups and downs, 5 weeks before i had erin OH told me he wasnt happy amd wanted to leave, a few weeks after her birth the same happend again. things have been good recently but i always feel on edge? i had app to get sterilized but have been unsure and when talking to OH he said that he would rather i didnt as you never know whats in the future. this has got me wound up as i feel like he is just gonna go one day?

money_maker_3

Anyone having problems with this site tonight? I keep getting kicked out when I refresh the page !