MSE Pregnancy Club XII

cazscoob

money_maker wrote: »

cuz we are better than you caz :rotfl:

No its just luck and patience !!!!!

ok so im just carp lol

Bear_family

Just done big clear out (on freecycle not the throne)! And there's been a reply for everything. Feel well chuffed. OH hasn't even been gone a day. Why is it we get so much more done when they aren't around.

Bearx

money_maker_3

cazscoob wrote: »

ok so im just carp lol

no, I'm just bored enough to spend 4 hours at a time trying !!! :rotfl:

skintchick

chopsticks wrote: »

Also, I should have said. I had my 36 week appointment yesterday and the MW confirmed that my baby had moved. It was back to back on the right hand side, and it's now the right way round on the left hand side. So over the past two weeks, it's flipped right over. Apparently it's not completely in the right position but it's far better than it was. I don't know if it was due to the exercises or whether baby would have just moved anyway, but I'm carrying on doing the exercises to see if I can get it into the perfect position!

She told me that she could only feel four fifths of the baby's head now, so it is partially engaged and, due to that, the baby might not go the rest of the way, but I'm willing to give it a shot.

That's good!

Mine is lying with its back to my right side, so facing my left side, which I'd guessed, but we thought it was head down although i guess it could have been and turned as it does have times when it is wriggling round a LOT.

Hope yours gets into optimum position - I have read they do a lot of turning in labour anyway to get the right way round so all is not lost even once contractions start.

BeenieCat

tarajayne wrote: »

Have you not had any counselling Beenie, really helped us. X

We've had a few sessions at Relate recently but it's £30 a pop and we're a bit poverty stricken at the minute .

I think we're both just depressing each other, when we have really bad arguments i tell him to get out, but only because there's no talking to him so it feels like we'll never stop arguing at that moment in time, so he won't do any decorating cos he thinks i'm going to kick him out all the time.

I'd feel like he was willing to try harder if he'd put some more effort in. For example, he moved back in (2nd time round) just after Xmas and due to a full house rewire and not having much bedroom storage he kept his stuff in bags for ages. Well upstairs they're still in bags and everytime we argue he says he hasn't unpacked cos he knew i'd end up kicking him out!!

In my defence it has always been him who runs away and me chasing but i got sick of it and now tell him he knows where the door is if he doesn't want to make the effort, and now he doesn't like it and i've tried to get him as a joint tenant but council said we can't, which i think is silly because if i died then my son and partner wouldn't have any right to live here!

cazscoob

4 hours:eek: i dont get 5 mins to go to the loo:rotfl:

anyone want a grumpy baby?

newmoneysaver_2

money_maker wrote: »

:silenced::silenced::silenced::silenced::silenced:

Oh MM, that must have been hard for you not to say anything!

4hrs - maybe I should start my mat leave now!

Beanie - I don't have anything usefule to say - hope you are ok! Look after yourself hun!

BeenieCat

money_maker wrote: »

aww beenie, are you happy with that decision, or do you want to make a go of it?

Not sure, mixed feelings. Head says give up, heart says keep trying. We've been trying for so long it never feels like it'll be good again!!

searching_me

beenie dont know what to say so have another cuddle from us two ...

caz jayden is already a mummys boy OH can sort him for half an hour but then thats it where as mummy keeps him happy for hours ..

last week i spent the whole day on bejeweled still didnt do an better x

money_maker_3

Not my area of expertise at all, but you really should have to keep trying in a relationship, every now and again is fine, but most of the time, it should just work.

Whatever you decide hun, make sure it is for the right reason, dont stay just because you think you should