Marathons, Money and Motivation

lynzpower

Whats up hun xx

lynzpower

CAFCGirl wrote: »

Good Day All

Its all started to go a bit pete tong, as we're struggling with money again to pay our debts. Ebay isnt going to bring me in loads and when we're back from holiday we may just do a couple of boot fairs to create some cash, and also to clear out some of the furniture etc for when we move.....

But I've still got a positive head on but it looks like I will end up staying on longer at my job, we've got no way of physically surviving on DH's wage.....

you really have to just go into default. You dont have the money to pay your debts. Come Xmas you certianly wont have the money if you move, as I know you want to . Once you are in default, it will be a lot easier to get them to agree a token payment plan, after all if a quids all they can get they cant get blood out of a stone.

CAFCGirl

well we are now but ive just had a really rubbish day with other half as I feel the need to start getting things organised, such as what are we going to do with our furniture, what do we want to put into storage, what to get rid of, how to get rid of it, and you know making sure hes got everything sorted out for his phone interview when his dates come through and hes just been really snappy and uncommunicative, and it doesnt really help me in any way.
He knows I dont respond well to stress and yet i just think hes being really ungrateful......

GAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And I was doing really well......

doodledo_2

Evening hun, whats up??

CAFCGirl

DH is just being a prize a ****......

I just want to have a conversation about what we're gonna do, and his answer is well we'll just cross that bridge when we come to it, and my response is well thats how we go to where we are now!!!!

That and now it looks like im going to end up staying on at my job longer, admittedly, it hasnt been too bad, but i just really dont want to, but there is nowt else we can do, because we cant cover our basic outgoings.
DH has got his head in the sand about all HIS payments, and i cant seem to get through to him, and then hes apparently found this fool proof way to pay our debts in a month which works similarly to match betting (apparently!) but i just dont trust it!!!!

On the plus side though today i did end up with a free hair dryer.... it didnt scan through the till at asda, but i didnt know till i got in the car,they took the tag off it and everything..... felt a bit bad, but as DH pointed out as far as we were concerned we had paid for it....

doodledo_2

How annoying grrrrrrrr. You both need to have things "sorted" in your hand if this is going to work, you don't want to drift into another situation where neither of you are happy.

This way of paying his debts back sounds a bit dodgy to me, has he said much about it.

CAFCGirl

hes shown me the website where it tells you how, and it makes sense to me but you know when you just have an eerie feeling about it all..... well i think theres something not right about it but hes convinced...

apparently it can make us £850 a day if we both do it...... so do that for a month and our debt is paid off but ........ there's is just something.....

claire0788

If something sounds too good to be true then 99.999999% of the time it is. Dont risk anything that you cant afford to. I hope things get a bit easier for you.

doodledo_2

£850 a day :eek: if it was that easy none of us would be in debt.

With my police hat on it sounds dodgy as hell, would be interested in the site any chance you could send me a link?? PM me if you can.

lynzpower

Yeah theres no way anyone can make 850 a day without gambling unless you have a hefty matched betting account ( eg a few K in your accounts) to trade with. Maybe its spread betting?

Oooh I just googled, is it this? http://www.make-online-money.co.uk/ ( google wont let me open it as it has some sort of problem with the site so dont CLICK)

Also from the google page it says in 5the blurb "you have to log out of the casino..." cant see any more than that, but theres the answer if its the same site.

If we could make 850 a day on whatever this is it would have been seen on mse and wed hardly be naffing around getting a fiver for mysetery shopping or a few pence for clickies.

Im worried about him, is he in denial do you think?