im worried about my friend

fatpiggy

A friend of mine dated a quite a few men on these sites, and without exception they were a bit weird. She lost quite a bit of money (£1000s) in the process as she fell for the sob stories. Every time I could see just what was going to happen and tried (gently) to warn her, every time "he was the real thing" - honestly, it was like a broken record, and every time it ended up the same way. Frankly I'd rather be celibate and single than meet someone this way.

angelicmary85

Hiya,

Your friend sounds quite lonely and may long for some male attention, maybe you could take her speed dating for a bit of banter? It obviously doesn't have to lead to anything but this guy could be the first guy in a while 'to show an interest' in her so she wants to believe it's real?

robbiecaratiger

Why does a bloke need THREE mobiles? Answer, he's up to no good. Take it from a bloke. He's up to no good.

Valli

tattoed_bum wrote: »

She says she loves him

Alarm bells?
They are clanging here too...

She has never laid eyes on the guy. Clearly she is an unhappy lady and is dreaming of 'Mr Right' and thinks it's this loser.

I'm glad I am not in your shoes TBH because she clearly isn't listening to reason.

absolutebounder

vik6525 wrote: »

He's married....

Id bet my @ss on it....



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What odds are you gonna give me:D

xmaslolly76

He is without a doubt Married. Been there done that and sent the t shirt back but as others have said she is a grown woman and nothing you will say will change her mind until she realises all this herself. I only found out the man i was chatting to was married after his wife phoned me up calling me everything but a lady. Need less to say i told him and her to where to go. At the end of the day if she cant keep her dog on his leash it aint my fault. Having said that i would never knowingly chase or be chased by a married man and alway try to look from the point of view of if it was my husband doing it to me. I hope your friend will see sence soon maybe you could encourage her to play the field a little if she has never met the guy they dont have a proper relationship and going on the odd date will boost her confidence and hoepfully she will meet a nice man. ;-)

Errata

Deep down she knows he's a player, she's biting your head off because she's angry with herself at being taken in and she can't bite her own head off.

Sign up to the site yourself as a sexy, attractive, playful blonde and contact him. Betcha get a response !

xmaslolly76

LOL Errata that sounds like a very good idea to me and my m8 have caught a few out doing that you should see there faces when you switch the camera on if you have one and they realise your both there classic :-) x

burnoutbabe

married or attached. if they don;t want to meet and 1st and re-arranged dates get post-poned, then they are not interested. but like getting sex texts, find me a man who doesn't.

consultant31

Is it just me - I find the most worrying aspect of this whole thing is the fact that she's neglecting to show any affection for her son :eek:

If she's daft enough to think some random bloke loves her because she's sent him some dirty pictures, that's her look-out. The child, however, has no say in what his Mum is doing, can't stop her if she decides to up sticks and move him away from his school, his friends etc.

It sounds to me as if she's unfit to care for a child. Sorry if that sounds harsh but I do worry about a child living with someone who lives in a fantasy world like this woman.