DFW Daily Chat 12 May

redsquirrel80

Snaggles wrote: »

It might Squizz

I finally deleted all the emails Dave ever sent me, and that upset me a bit but I was already feeling tearful before I did it.

Always hard getting rid of things like that but think how much upset it'll save you in future when there's no temptation to go back and dwell over reading them again.

Erm, it might give some of you a giggle to know that I have a new blouse on today and the top two buttons keep popping open - thank goodness it has a big bow thing on it that hides them, but I keep expecting buttons to go flying across the office :rotfl:

sallyx

Yeah keep a couple Maz, have had a look and there are a few around that we can drive to if its a rainy day.

Just off to make myself a hot chocolate

immoral_angeluk

Snags.. men aren't worth the heart ache.. seriously!! *hugs*

immoral_angeluk

sallyx wrote: »

Right Snags
You are gorgeous
You have 2 beautiful Children
You are an amazing Mum
You will show that stupid Head that he is in the wrong
Look to the future, focus on the good things in life and try to find a positive, i.e. all this with Ryan has brought it all to a head and may mean he finally gets the good education he deserves instead of the half hearted attempt they were giving him...there is a positive in this and you WILL deal with it hun

Now chin up, us woman always come out stronger after a few tears. Big hugs and Mwah xx

COMPLETELY agree!

Snaggles

Awww thanks - now I'm crying again but at least it's over something nicer.

I'm not going to let that stupid little head teacher win. He obviously can't cope with being told he is in the wrong, but I am going to tell him in no uncertain terms, in a rational way, backed up by evidence, until he has to agree. Hmmm, okay, now I'm starting to feel angry again - that's better than tearful. I'll cry once it's all sorted.

I'm getting over Dave, there's no doubt about it - the thought of going back makes me shudder, but it still upset me deleting everything.

He tried to talk to me again a few days ago - I was polite but I didn't get involved and cut the conversation as short as I could without being rude. I didn't really feel anything for him, just a bit sad for what we could have had. But even if he turned up on my doorstep naked, holding an engagement ring and a certificate of stable mental health, I still wouldn't go back.

(Land_of)_Maz

Snaggles wrote: »

Awww thanks - now I'm crying again but at least it's over something nicer.

I'm not going to let that stupid little head teacher win. He obviously can't cope with being told he is in the wrong, but I am going to tell him in no uncertain terms, in a rational way, backed up by evidence, until he has to agree. Hmmm, okay, now I'm starting to feel angry again - that's better than tearful. I'll cry once it's all sorted.

I'm getting over Dave, there's no doubt about it - the thought of going back makes me shudder, but it still upset me deleting everything.

He tried to talk to me again a few days ago - I was polite but I didn't get involved and cut the conversation as short as I could without being rude. I didn't really feel anything for him, just a bit sad for what we could have had. But even if he turned up on my doorstep naked, holding an engagement ring and a certificate of stable mental health, I still wouldn't go back.

:T:T:T i so hope that's true!


altho, it's never gonna happen cause he wouldn't pass the paperwork!

and yes, agree with everything sally says!

Snaggles

redsquirrel80 wrote: »

Erm, it might give some of you a giggle to know that I have a new blouse on today and the top two buttons keep popping open - thank goodness it has a big bow thing on it that hides them, but I keep expecting buttons to go flying across the office :rotfl:

:rotfl: No sudden movements then!

sallyx

Yep anger is good...it will see you through, just focus and take notes with you, some of the points Toto brought up would be good. You need to go in, knowing your stuff and sock it to him. He won't have a leg to stand on!

As for Dave it was a part of your life so its understandable that you are sad to let it go. You've had a cry about it, deleted the evidence now its time to move on (which you seem to have done anyway)

redsquirrel80

Snaggles wrote: »

:rotfl: No sudden movements then!

Nope.. otherwise... kerrrping!

immoral_angeluk

anger is better than being utterly depressed. Plus.. being angry is more fun:D