The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 3

budget_babe

Hi Guys :hello:

Sorry this is just a very quick post as just got in, been out all day at work and then I have been to my meditation class which is a few miles away. But the most local to me at the moment.

Logged on to see how our Darling Jo has gone on at the doctors. Was at the class tonight trying to empty my mind but kept thinking about Jo and hoping she was ok.

So Jo sweetheart I know you are scared at the moment but if you do stop drinking then your liver will improve, just look how bad Eselt's was and how fantastic her liver has improved since she stopped drinking. YOU REALLY MUST now try and stay off the alcohol and get yourself healthy again. You are still so young and gorgerous as well from your pic . But as you know yourself you must now take care of yourself, not only for you but for your darling children.

You have a chance now to change but as I have already said you can never change your past. I hope that you can stay af? I really don't know what else to say just PLEASE DO TAKE CARE and you can do this. You have the inner strength, you are strong enough.

Sorry to go on but its the first thing I have done when I walked in tonight was to log on and see how you had gone on. You have been on my mind all day.

Hugs my Darling Jo and here is an :A to watch over you. Wish I could give you a big squeezy hug ((())). xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

So to everyone I am sorry but I shall have to catch up properly on Friday as I have stuff to do before I go to bed.
Hope everyone is ok and I will tell you about my meditation class later, nice though.

Fay I have posted your prize today, very organised for me I have sent it first class and the lady said you could get it tomorrow? With our post that would be a miracle Ignore the outside wrapping it gets better inside, well it should do? Might just need the top plumping I hope you like it and it gets to you intact? Will spoil it if it doesn't. Would have hand delivered it but you live a bit far :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: Hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Gc hugs matey and I shall catch up with your posts. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi to any new people, good luck and take care. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

40sm hope the little ones are better and you are ok to? As I said last night I am af tonight and tomorrow. Hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Ok gotta dash, will catch up with you all on Friday. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Jo please do take care, we all do worry about you and want you to be well. God bless Angel xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Love n hugs guys
Budgie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

40somethingmum

escapism wrote: »

Will set a target of 8 AFD's, if thats ok Will hopefully be manageable

You are now added to my list.:D

40SM

40somethingmum

jo1972 wrote: »

I am taking milk thistle, just started :cool:

Eselt, thanks for your post, you have put my mind at rest. I'm not upset about this result, I needed a kick up the bum and I got it

Jo , I am so glad you said that - a fantastic attitude to have :T Take good care of yourself darling. ( will I chalk you up for the 30 days now then:o)

40SM

annie_d

Wow, what a fantastic read...pages and pages. Thankyou everyone.

Sorry, i forgot to mention my goal is NO ALCOHOL FOR JUNE....3 days done .

night night everyone xx

40somethingmum

My Goodness you lot have been busy today:eek:

I was at work for 9 hrs , came home & watched the apprentice and then thought I would have a quick update of the scores . There are lots of posts !!- all fantastic and inspirational. Early indications are showing that the results are also good for Day 3.

Scores in so far are :

THE JUNE ALCOHOL FREE CHALLENGE

Let’s do something different instead

MEMBERS COMMITTED TO OUR JUNE CHALLENGE ARE AS FOLLOWS :

1 – Miss Piggy Target af days for June: 30, Actual 2
2 – 115K Target af days for June is: 30, Actual 0
3 - WBF Target af days for June is: 14, Actual 3
4 – Jo1972 Target af days for June: 0 Actual 3
5 - YM Target af days for June is: 0, Actual 0
6 - Bhb Target of af days for June is: 30, Actual 2
7 - netttie Target af days for June is: 26, Actual 3
8 - Different Corner af days for June is: 30, Actual 1
9 - Eselt Target af days for June is: 30, Actual 3
10 - Fayjmck Target af days for June is: 30, Actual 3
11 - Fedupski Target af days for June is: 30, Actual 3
12 - Fluffyb Target af days for June is: 10 Actual 3
13 - Maman Target af day is for June is: 10 Actual 2
14 - Orchid Target af days June is: 24, Actual 3
15 – PIR af days for June is: 26 Actual 2
16 – Sparky0107 af days June is: 10, Actual af days 1
17 - LondonGuy Target af days June is:? Actual 0
18 - Lurkio Target af days for June is: 20, Actual 2
19 - Lillibet D Target af days for June is: 10 Actual: 0
20 - Winebox Target af for June is: 10 Actual 3
21 - Mackeroo Target af days for June is: 15 Actual 0
22 - 40SM Target af days for June is: 30, Actual 3
23 - Maz123 Target af days for June is: ?, Actual 0
24 – Ageing biker Target af days June is 22, Actual
25 - MollyPolly Target af days for June is: 30 Actual 3
26 - Glasgowgirl Target af days for June is: 16 Actual 1
27 - Nelski Target af days for June is:? Actual 0
28 - Ntc Target af days for June is:?, Actual 0
29 - Noynoy Target af days for June is: ?, Actual 0
30 - Badger Target af days for June is: 20 Actual
31 - Openscreen Target af days for June is: ? Actual 0
32 - Pariskate Target af days for June is: 20, Actual 2
33 – Annie_d Target af days for June is: 0 Actual 3
34- BB Target af days for June is: 23, Actual 3
35 - Stroppy Target af days for June is: 8 Actual 0
36 - Sleepyjo Target af days for June is: ?, Actual 0
37 - Escapism Target af days for June is 8, Actual ?

Sleep well everyone . Speak to you tomorrow

40SM

Pippilongstocking

40sm well done feet up and cuppa -

Budgie darling I look forward to plumping your wrapping to make it all plush again - and if yoru post is ANYTHING like Jo's I will get it tomorrow - our post is easy it all comes in by plane. The only thing that stops it is fog

AND IT HAD BETTER NOT BE MISTY TOMORROW>

mollypolly

fayjmck wrote: »

Constant vigilence - all times.

Well now we are on a mission eh to get your enzymes down.
What was it that the springwatchgirl post said about after a certain amount of weeks we'd be all bright and sparkly????

MP will remember ?[/QUOTE)

Post By Springwatchgirl.....

Well, week 5 of no alcohol and I see a different person in the mirror. My eyes no longer look dull and vacant, they actually have a little sparkle and my skin doesn't look like uncooked pastry anymore. I feel that I have won a battle but not yet the war. Hope everyone else is at the point they want to be, I never want to be that person I was, I have been tempted but I just think back to what I had become. The sun is shining at the moment and I feel good and want to continue to have the sun in my life.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ogaLWgE4kUI&feature=PlayList&p=7D5D3485D3661578&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=19

Hope the above link works:rolleyes:
This song means so much to me I thought I would share it with you all...especially Jo.....

It carried me through some very dark times when my drinking was at its worst, my marriage was very nearly over....found drunk in the gutter and taken home in a police car...the shame.....please everyone ....don't go there.

If you can just cut down then good luck.But if you feel you have the slightest problem with alcohol...Stop now.

And remember,.....Take Care of you.

(OK....that was a bit deep for me) But a lot of posts on here over the last few days have really got to me:o

Love Mollypollyxxxx

mollypolly

Oooops...forgot to say well done to all for 3 AF days :T:Tand welcome to the newbies....:hello::hello:

Love MPXXXX

40somethingmum

mollypolly wrote: »

fayjmck wrote: »

Constant vigilence - all times.

It carried me through some very dark times when my drinking was at its worst, my marriage was very nearly over....found drunk in the gutter and taken home in a police car...the shame.....please everyone ....don't go there.

If you can just cut down then good luck.But if you feel you have the slightest problem with alcohol...Stop now.

And remember,.....Take Care of you.

(OK....that was a bit deep for me) But a lot of posts on here over the last few days have really got to me:o

Love Mollypollyxxxx

Thank you Molly for being "deep" .. it will certainly help some of us get to
where you are now.:T

Sleep well sweetheart.

40SM

40somethingmum

OMG its nearly midnight- I must toddle of to bed NOW !! DH gets up in 5 hrs :eek:

Nighty Night.

40SM:o