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searching_me

MM you have no idea thats just a tiny part of my life its amazing whats been crammed in to my short life ..
glad everythings ok mook x

money_maker_3

Right I'm off to bed, catch you all tomorrow

Night xx

searching_me

nighty night MM x

astonsmummy

searching_me wrote: »

he sperm donnor is a A hole to say the least ... we (me and OH although it was killing OH) tried setting something up for him to meet zoe (never as dad as that would confuse her) but he had to own up to his family about a few truths but he was too much of a chicken poo to do so so the last i heard from him i gave him a chance you do it properly own up and be in her life now or never basically ... i got a text 3 days later saying "i cant do it philip is her dad i could never be take care of zoe for me bye" ....
zoes started to question her skin colour she asked did we think she would be the same as daddy poor OH didnt know what to say we'll explain when shes old enough to understand ...
the thing is i dont know how my real father is but both the guys (mother was cheating on one with her best friends husband o and yes i know i should be on eastenders ) so i can always say to zoe i did the right thing and tried ... its a hard topic but you gotta do what you feel is right x

Aww thats bought a little tear to my eye.
I have had a few questions from Aston about his Dad, and it's hard, what do you say?
He sometimes calls OH daddy, I dont tell him not to but i dint actively encourage him, it would be different if he was around from the beggining but he's only relly been a big part of his life for a year and as he is 5 nearly i think it should be his choice if he wants to call him Dad.

MrsTinks

Been up since 7 but taken me a while to read the last 10ish pages lol
Well I got my peas and beans in the ground yesterday with the kind help of some of my fellow allotment holders bless them!
Last night and this morning my pubic bone pain has definitely got a lot worse though! I really struggled getting up in the night for my wee breaks and when I turned over it felt like the bone wasn't as "solid" - like a click - so had to be very careful...
DH is only going to be working from home 2 days this week after all (unless the baby comes...) as someone messed up and now he has to run around fixing it and dealing with the fall out... I'm not impressed - it means at least ONE day he'll be 2 hours away and the other 2 he'll be minimum of 1 hour away... Not happy, not happy at all!
Roo please get out... mummy and daddy want to meet you now And mummy is seriously running out of room for your gymnastics!!

mountainlioness

Morning all

Not sure I'll be able to catch up but will do my best!

Dh felt Cub move at the weekend for the 1st time :j He was so excited. Not a full blown kick, more a little gymnastic manoevre!

Had a BBQ yesterday, first of the season, which was nice, toasted marshmallows at the end - bliss

Spa day was nice - though almost had another one of my low BP moments - had to send therapist lady out for sugar during head massage! She was great though and brought me a bunch of grapes so it never went beyond the cold sweat and hearing going funny stage. Must remember to keep snacks with me so I never get in that state in the first place

Only downer really was a conversation with MIL - she has come over all hysterical (she is a total over dramatiser, which goes down so well with me, who hates fuss!:mad:) about the 'not pink and frilly' thing. Apparently saw and wanted to buy a dress for Cub but then got all upset because we told her no dresses... apparently. AAAARGH! No we didn't we just said we didn't want to dress her up like a little princess so she couldn't run about and have a normal active childhood. So both of us had to have 15 mins of saying exactly the same thing to her. She is going to be TROUBLE I know it! heart in the right place but soooooo irritating! What is it with ppl, if you're not doing total head to foot pink, then it's so strange you have to have a whole conversation about it?!?!?

Rant over! :cool:

Edit: congrats to Shellsuit - just foudn your post! Aw, can't wait now!

Thanks for the thoughts on lion tatoos and bodysuits - keep those links comin' DH is very anti-tatoos, otherwise I'd suggest he gets a dad lion and cub

Krystaltips

Tine, I know what you mean about the pelvic bone clicking... Mine does that when I roll over in bed... I absolutely can't wait until I can roll over and it isn't agony!

Managed to drop off to sleep a little better last night then Aimee came in at 4am... I didn't realise it was so early, thought it was about 6 so I just left her where she was for a while... But then hubby woke up and took her back to bed... She was crying because she was scared but went back to sleep quick enough... And slept till 7:30 which is a lie in for her! She just told me it was because she was afraid of the dark... Hope it's not going to become a regular thing... I don't know how I can persuade her to go back to her own bed once we have the baby in with us... It's just not going to seem fair...

My plans for today... Get a load of washing dried because I have absolutely no clothes to wear today... They are all in the washing! Good job I have no plans to leave the house until 3pm...

Claire_Jones_3

Morning all,

Had a couple of cracking contractions yesterday after all the jobs I'd done round the house and then upstairs...;) Proper good take your breath away bad boys! Then nothing! Although bump has been getting real solid on and off for the past couple of days so maybe he's thinking about making an appearance! Just seem to have constant period pain type aches which is annoying the hell outta me - know how you feel krystal

My blood pressure was a healthy 110/70 when the midwife read it yesterday. So we've decided whenever I'm busy doing little jobs and pottering about my blood pressure is fine as soon as I sit down for a rest I start to get stressed out about the things I haven't done! So I'm just getting on with whatever I want to do and not worrying about it!

Love the tattoos, very pretty. I like them on some people especially little delicate ones but I'm too much of a wimp and don't want it on my body to have one. Don't get me wrong I appreciate them but I'd rather see it as a cross stitch/picture etc in my house than on my body

Sorry that turned into a long update from me! :rotfl:

searching_me

morning i wanna go back to bed zoes ill and OH is shattered as he couldnt get to sleep (me smacking him in the mouth doesnt help it was an accident ) ...
thanks AM OH was even there at zoe birth holding my leg up (that was a pic) as they say though anyone can make a child take a real man to raise one x

MrsTinks

LOL I need to do washing too Krystal and then I want to go plant my cabbages on the allotment I think... We're apparently forecast rain tomorrow so want as much in the ground today as I can get ready for some free watering lol...
And ofcourse it might encourage this baby to get shifting! Well I can hope...