Daily Chat Mon 27th April - My garden needs rain

beanielou

Weller hun i AM SO SO SORRY THAT SOMONE WAS SO UNBELIEVIABLY NASTY TO YOU ~ i CAN ACTUALLY HARDLY BELIEVE IT.
ANYWAY YOU KNOW WE ALL LOVE YOU & PLEASE DO NOT GO BACK TO LURKING.
Huggles hun xxxxx

Burlesque_Babe

Weller, I am deeply saddened that someone is so sick as to write what they did. They are scum and worthless and cowardly to PM under an AE hiding behind a computer as they aren't man/woman enough to say it in public and I hope they are reading this to realise how pathetic they are. We all love you so very much and you know you have us all there for you for love and support 24 hours a day (well, it will probably be Snaggles at 3am - you know she's a bit of a night owl!) even if you just want to say 'hi' , it doesn't have to be any great relevant conversation. xxxxxx

redsquirrel80

weller711 wrote: »

It was not any of you, I got a PM from somebody who said they were speaking on behalf of the daily chat thread and that I wasn't welcome and if I read back through every daily chat I would find out what exactly "you all" have said about me and my problems and called me mean and nasty names and horribly that it was a good thing that my husband had died - just plain out nasty. How did they know so much about me? There was something about someones Facebook page about me but I don't know anything about Facebook or how to use it so stupidly I posted what I did before I read back or reported the PM to abuse, I do read most of the daily threads which was why I was puzzled as nothing bad was said about me so after I posted I cried buckets and then searched under my user name for theads that mentioned me and there was nothing bad at all.

I sometimes feel like I am a target for nasty PM's but hey ho, I should have known better and for that and the post I made I truly apologise to all of you. I should have known that it was not true as the user - I had never heard the name he/she used but again, stupidly thought somebody had created the name so I wouldn't know who it really was. Stupid, stupid, stupid

It didn't help that it was or would have been Andy's 41st birthday and I was alone as my parents had the children for the weekend and I know now I shouldn't have been alone. That was part of the reason (along with the e-mail from Bunny ) for me logging on, to talk, to you lot, anyone..............

I am so sorry and apologise to you all for that post, I am a mess

The PM has now been copied to abuse, I'll go back to lurking

Weller, just a massive :grouphug: - so sorry you've had to deal with people being nasty like that on top of everything. Hope to see you around and not lurking too much x

spud30

Weller, just a thought hun.

You can change your profile to only accept PMs from contacts and Moderators. If you go in control panel, then edit options, it's a box about half way down that page.

Set up your friends and people you trust as contacts, then you should never have to go through anything like that again

bookseller1980

Weller, I would love to get to know you. Being alone is not always the way to cope with being alone although we all need our own space at times. Come and chat a bit. Your friends on here obviously care about you and miss you and would love to help. x

Burlesque_Babe

oooooooooooooh, the heavens have well and truly opened............it's hailstoning.

Bunnyinthelights

Weller,

What a truly disgusting thing to do. Im so glad we didn't something to hurt your feelings but hoenstly, what a sick sick sick thing to do.

Please stay around and chat x x x x x x

(Land_of)_Maz

weller711 wrote: »

I just want him to come back, even if its only for a day, I want to see his face and his smile, the crinkles around his eyes and have a hug, I want him to see his beautiful children, he would so proud, Mollies changing every day, such a little minx and Samuel has been so very good and brave, he's a credit to his Dad, I just want to tell him we love him, how much we love him, I was getting through every day, hard but I was, I bought him a birthday card, how stupid is that. I loved every inch of him and he loved me the same even when those inches started creeping up, we had 16 very happy years - why couldn't we have more. So cruel, he always bought me yellow roses, even on his birthday so I bought some but it isn't the same and his face is fading in my memory and I don't want it to............. sorry guys xx

He'll know you're feeling every one of those feelings as beautifully written above (thanks for sharing.....) He'll know how amazing his kids are, and they know how amazing he was to you all....

You had your time to make sure all feelings were known and even though fate tricked you by making you think he was getting better, those times you spent appreciating one another in the months before he was taken, are so special and even the best relationships in the world don't always get to know that depth of love.

Bless you babes, like bookie i would love to get to know you better...

Please stick around and share with us some stories about your man, and how the kids are doing day to day.... we like day to day !!!!!! here y'know!

bookseller1980

Weller, he will always be with you in your children and in your heart. You may be afraid of the face and memory fading but modern technology will ensure that it doesn't.
How lovely to have experienced such love. Talk to the children often about their very special Dad.

spud30

weller711 wrote: »

I just want him to come back, even if its only for a day, I want to see his face and his smile, the crinkles around his eyes and have a hug, I want him to see his beautiful children, he would so proud, Mollies changing every day, such a little minx and Samuel has been so very good and brave, he's a credit to his Dad, I just want to tell him we love him, how much we love him, I was getting through every day, hard but I was, I bought him a birthday card, how stupid is that. I loved every inch of him and he loved me the same even when those inches started creeping up, we had 16 very happy years - why couldn't we have more. So cruel, he always bought me yellow roses, even on his birthday so I bought some but it isn't the same and his face is fading in my memory and I don't want it to............. sorry guys xx

Aww Weller. I'm a great believer in life after death. I still talk to my mum most days (I make sure no-one's around, just in case they think I'm a barmpot). I still smell her perfume around the place too. Talk to Andy, he'll be listening. He'll be watching over the kids and seeing them grow up too.

You were very lucky to have 16 blissful years with your true love. I agree, you should have got much longer, but some people never find their true love at all.

Please dont lurk. We all care about you very much, and would love you to come on and share day to day goings on, stories about the kids etc.