Daily Chat Mon 27th April - My garden needs rain

Burlesque_Babe

weller711 wrote: »

I bought him a birthday card, how stupid is that.

not stupid at all.

weller711 wrote:

sorry guys xx

absolutely nothing to be sorry about, I feel honoured you've shared your thoughts about Andy, he was very lucky to have such a lovely lady as yourself and he will be with you and the children always. xxxxxxx

Please don't lurk, even if you just say 'hi' we at least know you are around because you are always in our thoughts. xxxxx

redsquirrel80

Weller, I can't add much to what the others have said but thankyou for sharing your thoughts with us. There's nothing stupid about anything you've said or done, and he will always be there with you.

Heading off for the day now but hope everyone has a lovely evening x

bookseller1980

I've started to read a book Sammy recommended by David Allen. 'Getting Things done - how to achieve stress-free productivity'.

Trouble is nothing is going to get done whilst I read it so I shall be even further behind. :eek:

Numpty_Monkey

spud30 wrote: »

Aww Weller. I'm a great believer in life after death. I still talk to my mum most days (I make sure no-one's around, just in case they think I'm a barmpot). I still smell her perfume around the place too. Talk to Andy, he'll be listening. He'll be watching over the kids and seeing them grow up too.

You were very lucky to have 16 blissful years with your true love. I agree, you should have got much longer, but some people never find their true love at all.

Please dont lurk. We all care about you very much, and would love you to come on and share day to day goings on, stories about the kids etc.

I think spud has said it better than I could

postingalwaysposting

Weller, you know I love you and respect you for everything you have been through. Your relationship with Andy can carry on and I actually love the fact you have brought him a birthday card. He will never be forgotton by you or your children and I know for a fact his life will shine through Molly and Sam. I have said before take each day at a time and please dont stay away, you are so welcome here :A

System

Hi Weller, thats bad someone sending you a PM and slagging you off. !!!!!! is that all about. I cant even begin to imagine what it must be like to lose someone so close to you as you did. You are never far from our thoughts on here. And the Facebook thing !!!!!! is that all about, who ever it is seems to be, have an unhealthy obsession with you and your life and thats what they need to get; a life. I've been described a 'Facebook Harrasser' recently and Im always on it and Ive said some strange things recently, coming out with some weird things but I couldnt do that to anyone. How about changing your username on here?? Well hope you are ok and hope that you dont remain lurking love x

jinky67

weller711 wrote: »

I just want him to come back, even if its only for a day, I want to see his face and his smile, the crinkles around his eyes and have a hug, I want him to see his beautiful children, he would so proud, Mollies changing every day, such a little minx and Samuel has been so very good and brave, he's a credit to his Dad, I just want to tell him we love him, how much we love him, I was getting through every day, hard but I was, I bought him a birthday card, how stupid is that. I loved every inch of him and he loved me the same even when those inches started creeping up, we had 16 very happy years - why couldn't we have more. So cruel, he always bought me yellow roses, even on his birthday so I bought some but it isn't the same and his face is fading in my memory and I don't want it to............. sorry guys xx

Awwwwww hunny:grouphug:

RAS

weller711 wrote: »

I just want him to come back, even if its only for a day, I want to see his face and his smile, the crinkles around his eyes and have a hug, I want him to see his beautiful children, he would so proud, Mollies changing every day, such a little minx and Samuel has been so very good and brave, he's a credit to his Dad, I just want to tell him we love him, how much we love him, I was getting through every day, hard but I was, I bought him a birthday card, how stupid is that. I loved every inch of him and he loved me the same even when those inches started creeping up, we had 16 very happy years - why couldn't we have more. So cruel, he always bought me yellow roses, even on his birthday so I bought some but it isn't the same and his face is fading in my memory and I don't want it to............. sorry guys xx

Weller

Far from sending you lousy pms, I wish i could send you yellow roses. I know that would not be proper ones because they did not come from Andy but the person who pm-ed you deserves to banned.

Have you set your Pm to ignore?

beanielou

Awwww weller I know you just want him to come back hun.
But he is always in your heart hun & lives on in Mollie & Sammuel.
Huggles xxxx

beanielou

Just seen my first Biggest Looser & it was very very omotional.