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Dates???
Dates???:eek::eek::eek::eek:
:T:T:T:T:T:T
Hehehe, well they haven't been entirely successful. There was:
- the one that bored me senseless but was quite a good kisser
- the one that turned out to be married :mad:
- the one that was really nice, who I saw a few times, but there was no *ahem* bedroom chemistry (it was really baaaad
- I ended up hiding in the bathroom till he fell asleep 

)
- the one who has asked me out but hasn't told me when he's free yet, and I'm getting a bit bored of waiting... :rolleyes: although he's lovely and very attractive so I'm keeping my fingers crossed it's just down to him having had a very busy couple of weeks. :rolleyes:
- and of course, the one that wont go away - the one I shouldn't see, who does me no good whatsoever, but OMG I fancy him like crazy, the one who breaks my heart on a fairly regular basis and yet somehow I end up feeling sorry for him because, after all, he's just a helpless, shedheaded bloke.... :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:
Should I become a nun??"I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough.":smileyhea97800072589250 -
Hehehe, well they haven't been entirely successful. There was:
- the one that bored me senseless but was quite a good kisser
well its better than a kick up the arris:D
- the one that turned out to be married :mad: I agree:mad:
- the one that was really nice, who I saw a few times, but there was no *ahem* bedroom chemistry (it was really baaaad
- I ended up hiding in the bathroom till he fell asleep 

) what can i say but:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
- the one who has asked me out but hasn't told me when he's free yet, and I'm getting a bit bored of waiting... :rolleyes: although he's lovely and very attractive so I'm keeping my fingers crossed it's just down to him having had a very busy couple of weeks. :rolleyes: why dont you take the lead then and contact him?
- and of course, the one that wont go away - the one I shouldn't see, who does me no good whatsoever, but OMG I fancy him like crazy, the one who breaks my heart on a fairly regular basis and yet somehow I end up feeling sorry for him because, after all, he's just a helpless, shedheaded bloke.... :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:
Should I become a nun??
And then there is him:cool::cool::cool::cool: only you can decide about that.
You would be a rubbish nun:p:p:p:heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls0 -
Hope your DLA form goes well. I think my friend does get an element of mobility for him as at his age a non aspy child would have a fair degree of independence and he doesn't. I strongly recommend the diet based on her experience. Her consultant poo poo ed it said it was a complete waste of time! How wrong was he! She found out that it also helped her with some problems she was having (more ADHD than ASP) and it helped with her daughter who was more ADHD than ASP. Look into it.... when she first did it I think she eliminated over 200 foods and over time she has added them back in but their intolerance to them has gone. Now there are only a handful of foods they can't tolerate!Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
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(If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
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And then there is him:cool::cool::cool::cool: only you can decide about that.
You would be a rubbish nun:p:p:p
1 - Lol yes, I only kissed him goodbye out of politeness, but it was a pleasant surprise!
2 - AND he wasn't even attractive - he had coffee breath :mad:
3 - It's funny NOW!! At the time...well, it was still quite funny.... :rotfl:
4 - We're in touch, and quite chatty, but he just wont name a date. And I daren't in case he says he's changed his mind!
5 - Oh I know I shouldn't.......but.......*sigh*
:o:o:o
He keeps saying 'I can't commit for a very long time' (I haven't mentioned commitment - the pressure is all in his head - I don't even WANT a relationship with him at the moment, having seen the mess his head is in :rolleyes:). But to me that implies 'I WILL commit in the future, so I'd like you to wait patiently for me to sleep my way round the West Midlands, and then be ready and waiting once I decide I'm ready, thanks babe'. And I know for my own sanity and self esteem, I can't do that. But ohhhh my god he makes my heart skip beats and all that cheesy crap.
And oiiiiiii - I could be a nun!!! :whistle: :whistle:"I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough.":smileyhea97800072589250 -
Right Mrs ~ before I read futher I have a washing machine you can have.
I was gonna say something else too but its escaped my naked model filled mnd for the moment so let me go back and read and watch this space.....:heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpulsTEAM YELLOWDFD 16/6/10"Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:0 -
Oh I remembered....
....would there be anyway of you getting Ryan's 'products' on prescription being that they are needed in relation to his condition?
xx:heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpulsTEAM YELLOWDFD 16/6/10"Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:0 -
savingholmes wrote: »Hope your DLA form goes well. I think my friend does get an element of mobility for him as at his age a non aspy child would have a fair degree of independence and he doesn't. I strongly recommend the diet based on her experience. Her consultant poo poo ed it said it was a complete waste of time! How wrong was he! She found out that it also helped her with some problems she was having (more ADHD than ASP) and it helped with her daughter who was more ADHD than ASP. Look into it.... when she first did it I think she eliminated over 200 foods and over time she has added them back in but their intolerance to them has gone. Now there are only a handful of foods they can't tolerate!
It sounds good - I think it would be a huge battle with Ryan because he's a carb-oholic, and there aren't many foods he actually likes, but I will definitely do some more reading on the subject."I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough.":smileyhea97800072589250 -
Right Mrs ~ before I read futher I have a washing machine you can have.
I was gonna say something else too but its escaped my naked model filled mnd for the moment so let me go back and read and watch this space.....
Hellooooooooo!!!
OMG really???? How? Where??? That would be amazing, thank you!!!
I intended to ring the health visitor today about the night time products, but of course I forgot......gahhhhh!
I WILL do it tomorrow!
Now get that naked model out of your head!!!"I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough.":smileyhea97800072589250 -
But to me that implies 'I WILL commit in the future, so I'd like you to wait patiently for me to sleep my way round the West Midlands, and then be ready and waiting once I decide I'm ready, thanks babe'. And I know for my own sanity and self esteem, I can't do that.
You know, I was in that exact position. I got told one night by a woman that i was "Mr Right, but not Mr Right now
" and that she wanted to be with me, but not yet because she isn't ready. So I duly moved on and she sabotaged my next early relationship by getting in the way and causing me no end of problems, oh and kept telling me about her latest one night stand. I mean come on love you ain't really selling yourself are ya? - I thought. Needless to say I am still single with only dirty dreams
as company. To be honest I really don't mind being alone, I just spend most of my time dedicated to my kids. TOTAL AT START £13606.90 27/03/2018
TOTAL CURRENT £13445.90 29/03/20180 -
downnotout wrote: »You know, I was in that exact position. I got told one night by a woman that i was "Mr Right, but not Mr Right now
" and that she wanted to be with me, but not yet because she isn't ready. So I duly moved on and she sabotaged my next early relationship by getting in the way and causing me no end of problems, oh and kept telling me about her latest one night stand. I mean come on love you ain't really selling yourself are ya? - I thought. Needless to say I am still single with only dirty dreams
as company. To be honest I really don't mind being alone, I just spend most of my time dedicated to my kids.
Oooooh - sorry to hear that.
Relationships are complicated aren't they - how anyone ever ends up happily married, I really don't know!"I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough.":smileyhea97800072589250
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