Fresh tax year fresh diary ( i cant locate my other one) :D

CITDFW

hi happy, previous posters are right you'll never be able to afford children, but if you do have the chance to wait till your debt free then thats good, but also dont let the debt make the decision for you 'the debts will still be there when your eggs aren't' , you are still young tho and have plenty of time, i wanted children as soon as i got married but being 21 everyone told me to live my life etc etc before having them, i ended up having ds 3 weeks after i turned 24 then dd 21 months later then ds 3.5 years later, im the youngest mum on the school run by at least 7 years some of them are 14 years older than me, so you still have plenty of time, right im rattling on here and going off on a tangent, what im trying to say is in your heart you'll know when the time is right xxxxxx
i' met a lot of people on bounty when preg with dd and one of my now best friends in the whole wide world is one of the mums i met on there, and she is actually ds' godmother, when the babies turned 1 we threw a huge party for them and all the mums from all over the country got together in a little village hall in bedfordshire!! see the internet is full of lovely people - we are not all axe wielding nutters!!!!!!!

Happytogetdebtfree

Okay well can i add some more of you non axe weilding women ? I am shattered had a very productive day i am stopping up though im so excited, CITDFW you are right re kids no one is ever ready ... but im feeling the maternal urge now and its more finances stopping me.... but again if it happens it happens nature will take its course lol lol ... anything to report today ?? xx

Woo woo wow i dont know if i could cope with that option been taken away i would like children lots of them infact im big on family but again nothaving kids i feel has its perks .... not everybody wants children do they .... i love the idea of it myself just need to feel abit more sturdy in the bank xx

Woowoo

Hi Happy

I was wondering where you were today lol! Have you been working?

Another busy day at work for me. Am now freaking myself out watching Crime Watch, but my dog's looking after me lol!

RumPunch_2

I think the clock is ticking for me! We need to get on with it if we're going to do it!

Woo - I'm fairly certain that you can have it reversed.

Happytogetdebtfree

Ah im watching midsomer murders ive taped it im sad like that hehe xx

Woowoo

He only did it last November! To be honest I can't see me changing my mind, it just sucks a bit when options are taken from you.

I'm more annoyed that after ten years he still won't marry me!

Woowoo

Night Happy x

Happytogetdebtfree

propose to him

Woowoo

He would say no lol, too humiliating!

Happytogetdebtfree

Evening, a productive day in the happy household new floors laid and doors on tomorrow courtesy of dad hehe im tired though up bright and early doing tip runs and diy work geesh im having a nice bit of spag bol for my tea yummy yum yum .... i think its a night infront of the tv and a few cups of coffee....

i have paid some money to my egg loan i have to wait for oh's cash to clear angry angry but let it slide after allit will be paid and thats the key issue

woo woo im sure he wouldnt say no, your a stunner
men are weird creatures at the best of times lol i know they drive me potty :P x