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  • di3004
    di3004 Posts: 42,579 Forumite
    pinknico wrote: »
    Hello dearest Di, thanks for the facebook message, have sent you one also. Thinking of you at this time and hope you are looking after yourself.
    Love as always. Nico.x

    Thank you honey, and just received your FB message as well.:A

    Dad is looking peaceful in the chapel of rest and it looks like he is just sleeping.;) Its defo a consolation to last week.
    And don't worry I'm okay now, thank you honey.

    Lots of love and hugs.
    Di
    XXXXXXXXXX
    The one and only "Dizzy Di" :D
  • di3004
    di3004 Posts: 42,579 Forumite
    Hello everyone

    Hope your all well.

    As you will see I have been posting, cos I find it helps loads to keep going, and its what dad would want.

    I do have something to say though and its brought great comfort to me, I know we all have our own believes but, over the last few months my washing machine have been playing up, it completed the full cycle until the final spin, we had to manually turn this, but yesterday the first time in ages it carried on.......:T, today have been the same too.
    I keep telling myself its dad as a sign to say he is at peace.

    And another thing too, even though I do understand its that time of year, but when sitting in the garden for chill and a think, and a sob, a white butterfly appears each time, again that brings me comfort.

    A few days ago, tidying up mum and dad's garden, I kept expecting dad to walk through the door, so I sobbed then suddenly a Red Admiral butterfly appeared from my dad's water fountain.;)
    The one and only "Dizzy Di" :D
  • maxdp
    maxdp Posts: 3,873 Forumite
    di3004 wrote: »
    Hello everyone

    Hope your all well.

    As you will see I have been posting, cos I find it helps loads to keep going, and its what dad would want.

    I do have something to say though and its brought great comfort to me, I know we all have our own believes but, over the last few months my washing machine have been playing up, it completed the full cycle until the final spin, we had to manually turn this, but yesterday the first time in ages it carried on.......:T, today have been the same too.
    I keep telling myself its dad as a sign to say he is at peace.

    And another thing too, even though I do understand its that time of year, but when sitting in the garden for chill and a think, and a sob, a white butterfly appears each time, again that brings me comfort.

    A few days ago, tidying up mum and dad's garden, I kept expecting dad to walk through the door, so I sobbed then suddenly a Red Admiral butterfly appeared from my dad's water fountain.;)

    Hi Di

    I am glad you have found comfort in these things. Very strange about the washing machine.

    I am taking MIL about tomorrow looking for houses near us so if I do not get on here I hope all goes as well as possible for Thursday.

    Lots of love.xxxxxxxxx
    :mad:
  • di3004
    di3004 Posts: 42,579 Forumite
    maxdp wrote: »
    Hi Di

    I am glad you have found comfort in these things. Very strange about the washing machine.

    I am taking MIL about tomorrow looking for houses near us so if I do not get on here I hope all goes as well as possible for Thursday.

    Lots of love.xxxxxxxxx


    Hi Max and thank you.:A

    It does help loads, especially the butterflies lol.;)

    It is strange with the washing machine and its been working ever since :T (thanks dad).:D

    Hope your MIL is okay Max and the best of luck with the house hunting for her, it will be better for you all this way, good luck.

    Sending you all my love.
    XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
    The one and only "Dizzy Di" :D
  • showergirl
    showergirl Posts: 885 Forumite
    Di,

    Just to let you know my thoughts will be with you and your family tomorrow.

    Take care
  • di3004
    di3004 Posts: 42,579 Forumite
    Thank you Showergirl, that is so lovely of you.:A

    Hope you and your family are well.

    Lots of love
    Di
    XXXXXXXXXXXXX
    The one and only "Dizzy Di" :D
  • amersall
    amersall Posts: 17,037 Forumite
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    Hi di, will be thinking of you tomorrow xxxx
  • di3004
    di3004 Posts: 42,579 Forumite
    amersall wrote: »
    Hi di, will be thinking of you tomorrow xxxx


    Hi honey, and thank you too.:A

    How are things, hope your okay. XXXXXXX
    The one and only "Dizzy Di" :D
  • pinknico
    pinknico Posts: 3,261 Forumite
    Will be thinkng of you tomorrow Di.
    Glad your dad sorted the washing machine!x
    Many people say they have seen butterflies in the same situations (also feathers) so I am sure your dad is keeping a very good eye on you.xx
    Lots of love and special thoughts for your mum.x
    DS1 12/10/04
    DS2 13/07/06
    DD1 06/12/07
  • di3004
    di3004 Posts: 42,579 Forumite
    pinknico wrote: »
    Will be thinkng of you tomorrow Di.
    Glad your dad sorted the washing machine!x
    Many people say they have seen butterflies in the same situations (also feathers) so I am sure your dad is keeping a very good eye on you.xx
    Lots of love and special thoughts for your mum.x

    Thank you Pinknico honey, your words have also brought great comfort to me.:A
    Today, my hubby went to see dad at the chapel of rest as he did not get a chance earlier, and said how peaceful he looked. And again a big white butterfly was hovering around the bird table hubby made out of an old table dad gave to us, it was lovely.;)

    Hope you and your family are well, take care and again thank you.
    XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
    The one and only "Dizzy Di" :D
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