The 'I want it NOW!!' debt/savings thread - Part 3

moneymabel

No prob. Most people will be on Prozac for about 6 months, this is to ensure that your depression has passed before you come off them. They are the easiest anti depressant to come off of because they stay in your system for a long time so you wont get withdrawal. Your doctor might suggest some counselling (I think I will be having this) but you dont have to do it.
don't feel bad about DD being late for school, once in 4 years is bloody good!
Have you phoned the dragon?

jenjade

i have had councilling before but it was no help i don't know why i am down so the councilling focused on all the bad things that could have caused it which made me feel even worse.

I have phoned and i just about managed not to cry. i said very little to her. i am not ready to talk to her really. i have handed over my workload to her so she knows what i was ment to be doing.
She has asked me if i think i will be back in 2 weeks! (pushy or what) I said at the moment i have no idea when i will be back. I think i am going to have to take the tablets i am feeling really rubbish but i am not sure if i can face it getting worse before it gets better.
I feel really preasured to go back to work as people want holiday over x mas. i told my manager i can feel the preasure to be back on the 21st dec but she siad oh no no preasure. there really is preasure though. i just can't forget about work and switch off!

moneymabel

Hi Jen, I know the last thing u want is to feel worse but it will help loads in the long run, when I first got ill I couldn't see any end to it but now I feel more positive , still don't want to go back to work but then I didn't like my job anyway.

moneymabel

Oh and as for work, tough they will have to cope- you need to concentrate on yourself and getting better. It's more important for you to be healthy to look after DD than any job. You are debt free so in the best position you could be financially. Use your time off to help yourself.

jenjade

yeah you are right MM. i need to switch off but it is easier said then done!

Going to list some more bits on e bay this week they should sell well before x mas.

What are you doing today mm?

My sister said leek if fantastic for people who feel low so i am making leek and potatoe soup i don't feel to bad this morning.

moneymabel

Yeah I know- if it was easy not to worry about things no one would have this crappy illness!
Have been doing a bit of tidying up and written out my Xmas cards. Didn't win anything on bingobritain today :-(
Hope your eBay stuff sells well for you.

mariagti

Hey girls

Im back! All went ok, i was losing some blood so they had to stop early but the surgeon thinks he got everything out, ive got to book another scan to make sure it all clear for in 2 days, but he said if there is some tissue left i will pass it naturally...thank god!

Im feeling pretty much normal again, not much pain at all

Jen- your manager is a bit of a heartless moo, hope your ok.

hope everyone else is feeling ok too

moneymabel

Hi Maria, well done for getting through that today, hope all goes as they said.
Going to see my friend soon, she is 40 and was trying for a baby, she had a miscarriage last year and has just given birth to a boy. There seems to be so many people having problems with conceiving /carrying at the moment .
You'll be ok hun and will be a mummy again- love to you. X

claroc

hi jen , so sorry you feel that way maybe you have SAD and a light box could help? you can get support for this, your doctor should have names of local charities who might help lots of luck claroc

moneymabel

Hi claroc-welcome to the thread and thanks for the advice,never realised you could get help with buying them. Sure Jen will be along soon.

Won £10 on OH's bingobritain this morning,always check now to see if anyone else from here is playing before I buy tickets! dont want to compete with friends lol!

Hope everyone is feeling ok this morning. I've got to go food shopping..urgh..hate it at the best of times :-(