The 'I want it NOW!!' debt/savings thread - Part 3

Shoe_Gal

Hi jen

Hope you feel better soon Don't be afraid to try the tablets, there is nothing wrong with getting help

And everybody else - well done on all the wins :j

moneymabel

Well done nicki!!!
Thanks Shoe gal-how are you feeling now? any better today?

Shoe_Gal

Thanks MM

Am ok, don't think I am actually depressed, just down if that makes sense I can still make myself do things (just put a few tiles up on my kitchen wall!) but am not really enthusiastic about anything!

Am just trying to look after myself (food, exercise, pampering stuff!) and not put too much pressure on myself by being organised so I am not rushing about at the last minute all the time, and not taking on too much

moneymabel

Nope that makes perfect sense-you can be depressed without having depression. Expect you are just down coz you have had so much to do. Good that you are looking afer yourself that will help loads :-)

mariagti

I cant believe how down we're all feeling on here:(

Im trying my best to pull myself back up and be strong as i want to have a Happy Christmas not a sad one. I also dont want to make my family and people around me feel as though they cant enjoy themselves just because of whats happened to me.
So i will be trying my best to put on a happy face again as soon as i can!

So who has there tree up already?!

moneymabel

It's not a happy thread at the moment is it :-( Hope you are doing ok Maria-don't try to hard to happy for other people, give yourself time to grieve.

Nope-no tree yet!

Shoe_Gal

No tree for me either :rolleyes:

Maria, hope everything goes well tomorrow, take care of you :A

Nichelette

Hopefully we'll all have a better new year than this one has been. I've just been wrapping some presents and trying to have a general clear up, there is so much stuff in this house, we don't have room for it all. Last weekend my mum bought me some nice plates (just in case I can ever afford to move out lol), so I've put them in the loft along with the rest of the house bits I have but probably won't use for years.

Anyway, no tree here yet either, my mum is coming down to put it up next weekend because my sister is a christmas obsessive and wants it done 'properly'. We've got a second one for the conservatory this year, but it's all gold and will probably look horrible lol.

mariagti

My dad bought our tree and decorations down from the loft on friday, i think he was going to put them up to try cheer me up. The boxes got as far as the living room and thats it! Lol, they have now been moved to the hall.

The tree i bought a couple of years ago and looks a bit rubbish now, its a bit thin on branches. Theres some lovely tree's half price at homebase im trying to convince my parents to buy anew one for this year.

jenjade

i have a fake tree but i don;t like it so this morning me and dd went and got a 4-5ft tree for £12.50. can't be bothered to put it up or even find a bucket. finding it very hard today.

i will be thinking of you tomorrow Maria take care