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The 'I want it NOW!!' debt/savings thread - Part 3

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  • jenjade
    jenjade Posts: 8,418 Forumite
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    Answer: Oh, for crying out loud!
    > Don't you re member your own name? It was YOU!!
    :j Proud mum to Jade age 10 years and Baby Ellie born Christmas Day:eek: with a broke heart :( Proven to be a little fighter and battling on with her heart condition :j
  • jenjade
    jenjade Posts: 8,418 Forumite
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    lilmissmup wrote: »
    LOL Jen!

    Yep I am really looking forward to Monday morning! I have even cancelled my holiday off work at the moment as need the distraction.

    Managed no contact with him now for over 24hrs, he kept texting me even if i wasnt texting him but I asked him to stop.

    Wish he wasn;t still coming in the house on his lunchbreaks though.

    Me and My Dad have made a good start on tidying up the house for when i move though.


    will you be moving in with your parents for a bit? when you moving out your place?
    :j Proud mum to Jade age 10 years and Baby Ellie born Christmas Day:eek: with a broke heart :( Proven to be a little fighter and battling on with her heart condition :j
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Haven't handed notice in yet, i can't move back to my dads as he has a cat too and it will be cat fights galore! :o

    I need to be out soon though really for my mental state and wallet! My nan is helping me with bills this month and next.

    Hopefully will have another house to view this week but they need to see if landlord will accept cats, i had a nosey round the outside today, not too bad though needs tidying.
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • jenjade
    jenjade Posts: 8,418 Forumite
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    you will find it much easier to cope when you move out away from all the memories!

    It will take a lot of time hun but you will be fine
    :j Proud mum to Jade age 10 years and Baby Ellie born Christmas Day:eek: with a broke heart :( Proven to be a little fighter and battling on with her heart condition :j
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Just makes it all so final though.

    I would still be willing to work at it but its down to him and hes made his choice with his true love, the herb that can be smoked, thats why he won't grow up, if he quit we would have a chance, when we went on holidays and didn't have it he was such a different more active person.
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
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    lilmissmup wrote: »
    Just makes it all so final though.

    I would still be willing to work at it but its down to him and hes made his choice with his true love, the herb that can be smoked, thats why he won't grow up, if he quit we would have a chance, when we went on holidays and didn't have it he was such a different more active person.

    Just read this and didn't want to read and run. Don't know you well so don't want to say anything to upset you as you sound so sad, but I say, from bitter experience, you cannot change people if they don't want to change

    Take care

    Shoe Gal x :D
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • jenjade
    jenjade Posts: 8,418 Forumite
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    yeah i agree with that he wants his weed more than anything else at the moment that is really harsh and tough but until he is ready he won't change!

    Night hun take care
    :j Proud mum to Jade age 10 years and Baby Ellie born Christmas Day:eek: with a broke heart :( Proven to be a little fighter and battling on with her heart condition :j
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Night too. x
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • jenjade
    jenjade Posts: 8,418 Forumite
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    hi everyone just had a very long day at work!

    What you all doing? this thread is so quiet amy hasn't appeared for ages!
    :j Proud mum to Jade age 10 years and Baby Ellie born Christmas Day:eek: with a broke heart :( Proven to be a little fighter and battling on with her heart condition :j
  • jenjade
    jenjade Posts: 8,418 Forumite
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    page 7??? where have you guys been??

    I now have 2 days off!!! YEAH

    What have you all been up to?

    How is everything now Dawn? I hope you are ok
    :j Proud mum to Jade age 10 years and Baby Ellie born Christmas Day:eek: with a broke heart :( Proven to be a little fighter and battling on with her heart condition :j
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