The 'I want it NOW!!' debt/savings thread - Part 3

jenjade

Answer: Oh, for crying out loud!
> Don't you re member your own name? It was YOU!!

jenjade

lilmissmup wrote: »

LOL Jen!

Yep I am really looking forward to Monday morning! I have even cancelled my holiday off work at the moment as need the distraction.

Managed no contact with him now for over 24hrs, he kept texting me even if i wasnt texting him but I asked him to stop.

Wish he wasn;t still coming in the house on his lunchbreaks though.

Me and My Dad have made a good start on tidying up the house for when i move though.

will you be moving in with your parents for a bit? when you moving out your place?

lilmissmup

Haven't handed notice in yet, i can't move back to my dads as he has a cat too and it will be cat fights galore!

I need to be out soon though really for my mental state and wallet! My nan is helping me with bills this month and next.

Hopefully will have another house to view this week but they need to see if landlord will accept cats, i had a nosey round the outside today, not too bad though needs tidying.

jenjade

you will find it much easier to cope when you move out away from all the memories!

It will take a lot of time hun but you will be fine

lilmissmup

Just makes it all so final though.

I would still be willing to work at it but its down to him and hes made his choice with his true love, the herb that can be smoked, thats why he won't grow up, if he quit we would have a chance, when we went on holidays and didn't have it he was such a different more active person.

Shoe_Gal

lilmissmup wrote: »

Just makes it all so final though.

I would still be willing to work at it but its down to him and hes made his choice with his true love, the herb that can be smoked, thats why he won't grow up, if he quit we would have a chance, when we went on holidays and didn't have it he was such a different more active person.

Just read this and didn't want to read and run. Don't know you well so don't want to say anything to upset you as you sound so sad, but I say, from bitter experience, you cannot change people if they don't want to change

Take care

Shoe Gal x

jenjade

yeah i agree with that he wants his weed more than anything else at the moment that is really harsh and tough but until he is ready he won't change!

Night hun take care

lilmissmup

Night too. x

jenjade

hi everyone just had a very long day at work!

What you all doing? this thread is so quiet amy hasn't appeared for ages!

jenjade

page 7??? where have you guys been??

I now have 2 days off!!! YEAH

What have you all been up to?

How is everything now Dawn? I hope you are ok