The 'I want it NOW!!' debt/savings thread - Part 3

yukkibear

moneymabel wrote: »

Whoops sorry dawn!!

Last time I looked I was Yukki :rotfl:

moneymabel

Oh god I give up... I'll get my coat ! Think senility has set in sorry yukki!

yukkibear

That's ok MM not to worry

Nichelette

I think it happens to all of us eventually mm!

lilmissmup

Hi girls,

Sorry not been about for a while and hope your all ok.

My OH left me Monday night, mainly due to the problem he had of me wanting a baby but i know things have been drifting away between us recently. I think hes seriously depressed as hes pushed people away over the last six months but now hes advertising to the whole world hes single on facebook grrrrrrrrr :mad:

Apparently still loves me but refuses to talk about anything all I get is this is it. I am willing to work go councilling etc but he would never do that.

This is what he does though, hes 30 yet seriously needs to grow up, he will be with someone soon I know as he can;t cope alone, hes at his mums for another couple weeks then moving into a bedsit. Says how can i afford my own place, well tbh it won't be easy but I am not going into a bedsit and I have our cats to think off!

Seriously hope he can sort his head out and that he doesn't just meet someone and get them pregnant, that would screw him!

So I am looking at a one bedroom house today as don't want too and can't afford to live in our one anymore.

We have been talking/texting all week but last night things got a bit nasty due to facebook single status and comments he had put to others saying yeah i am ok etc so not going to talk to him for a while. I saw him Thursday as we talked monies.

He still coming in every day though and seeing our cats which is a little annoying, will get his key back off him in two weeks when he should be taking all his stuff.

I have been clearing out my stuff and found the picture he had of us in his wallet just on a bookcase, that hurts too, must have done it Sunday or Monday night.:o

Sorry for really long post! x

yukkibear

Hugs Dawn, each day will get a bit better I'm sure. When you have your own place that will help too. I know it's not easy, try to be strong and don't let it drag you down too much.
Good luck with the viewing today.

jenjade

Hi all,

Dawn i am sure things will work out for the best in the end. I know it really hurts now but as time goes on it will be much easier. (trust me i have been there) Good luck on the house hunting is it to rent?

I have got the phone number for someone about morgages so i WILL book an appointment to sort that out i am trying not to get my hopes up incase he says NO! But i am really excited!!!

What are you all doing this weekend? Last night i went to my mums for tea and a games night it was great fun and of course all free!!

Today i won £5 on the daily scratchcard so i could withdraw £10!

jenjade

oh phoned the morgage man he is going to phone me back to book an appointment on monday!

jenjade

Where are you all? i am really bored

yukkibear

I've been spending money which I'm really annoyed about! Not a lot but that doesn't count lol.

Also been and done boring food shopping and bought petrol etc. And dd2 has been a wingey minnie all day. Thank god OH is home now to share.