The 'I want it NOW!!' debt/savings thread - Part 3

moneymabel

Hi Dawn-will catch up on your diary but in the meantime, I'm sure you will feel better when you get into your new house away from him . I can only imagine what a £55 a week bedsit is like now-I lived in one 15 years ago that cost that and it was a right dive!! Don't know if youve got to the serves him right/hate him stage yet but when you do the fact that he's in a sh**ty bedsit will cheer you up no end!
take care hun :-)

Shoe_Gal

moneymabel wrote: »

Don't know if youve got to the serves him right/hate him stage yet but when you do the fact that he's in a sh**ty bedsit will cheer you up no end!
take care hun :-)

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: that stage should definately be your aim

moneymabel

Shoe_Gal wrote: »

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: that stage should definately be your aim

Deffo-and I'm great at petty revenge so when you get there Dawn just shout :-)

Just read your diary and (this is just my humble opinion) I wouldn't even consider getting back with him unless he kicks the weed,whilst he's on that things will never improve and if you want a baby then theres no way I would have a child round someone who does that. I know he probably wouldnt smoke near the child but I have some (now ex) friends who through their behaviour from smoking weed for many years had their child taken away. I know its different as its just him and not you and i have got a extremely low opinion of anyone who smokes that carp. He doesn't sound like he deserves you or your forgiveness so get into that new house,and enjoy having your mates round/having control of the tv/and eating chocolate for breakfast if you damn well want to.

Sorry if any of this offends I didn't mean it to-just seem to be in a ranty mood :-/

lilmissmup

Nothing offends MM i swear.

I would have loved for him to quit smoking, both that and normally but hes been doing both for about 15 years. On holidays he was such a different guy as he couldn't take it abroad, it really does mess with your brain.

Everyone thinks he doesn't deserve me, he thinks i can do better.

I am not at the hating stage, still in begging back stage but decided thats got to stop after last night/night before.

Looking forward (sort of) to today as going to London with a mate but he will be here starting to clear his stuff out.

He doesn't have to take that bedsit, he could stay at his mums for a few more weeks and find something else but hes being stubborn i guess, with himself though!

moneymabel

Try to have a good time in London (easier said than done I know) It will get easier I promise. You're still young ( not an old codger like me) there's plenty of time to meet someone who deserves you and have a sproglet, have a good day hun.

And where is everyone else on this thread ??????

yukkibear

Dawn each day will be a little better for you. Hope you enjoy London today.

I have loads I want to do this weekend not sure whether I'll do it all though.

moneymabel

Hi Yukki :-) you are doing well with your car loan!! Ive just paid £100 off mine but I am considering buying wii active. I'm using wiifit but to be honest its getting boring,you have to wait so long between exercises that you get fed up and the exercises aren't that strenuous (and i'm really unfit!) I can see me giving up which I dont really want to do as i have been really good with healthy eating etc. So...not sure if I should buy it. Cheapest Ive found is £35

jenjade

hi all,

You 2 are doing so well at paying off your loans! I am not feeling very motervated today! I might go and do some sorting and see if i can motervate myself!

My wages went into the bank yesterday and i have not been paid the extra hours i was expecting so i am feeling very annoyed!

I am feeling quite excited about the morage man coming on weds! then i will know where i stand and can get the ball rolling!

my e bay stuff s doing ok 7/26 items have bids on them which isn't to bad they have 3 days to go!

jenjade

work have given me a leaflet on a course that might interest me!

I have read it and i am very interested it is a foundation degree (intergrated children services). i think it is a 2 year course. there is funding avalible as i am on a low income. I will get the course paid for
£750 bursary a year non repayable
and a non repayable maintance grant which is up to £2,906 a year. (plus addition grants for other groups which might include lone parents?)
i will also get 25% discount on my council tax!

it would possible get me a pay rise at the end but if it didn't i would be able to take better paid jobs!

i would also have 240 higher education credits to add to the 60 i already have!

moneymabel

That sounds good Jen!! will you have time to fit it in? well done on your ebay stuff. Good luck with mortgage blokey-do you still need to wait to get a deposit or are you sortd?