Support for people with Depression

Horasio

Not enjoying the summer so far as the owner uses the garage at the end of the garden. Normally he hardly uses it as he is there for 10 minutes at a time dropping off and going once in a blue moon.

Two weeks ago he was faffing every day and staring over the fence when we were eating at 8pm.

I don't feel I can use my garden by day nor eat in that room till the nights get dark again.

If it keeps happening I will tell the agent. It hasn't bothered me till this month.

Horasio

flis21 wrote: »

I'm so glad you said that, I panic all the time that I'm not a good mum, but I really do think that's a horrid thing to do and would never do it to my children. I'm glad I never leave her in sole charge of the boys if that's the way she would treat them!!

She sounds like she is from the old school of mindf**ks:eek:

I am sure you are a good mum and certainly a lot better one than your MIL

Indie_Kid

elfen wrote: »

ETA: *pulls hair out* Need to stop giving advice I wouldn't listen to (not you flis...your mil is a tyrant) Why do I give advice bu then never fricking listen to it myself, am i just a thicko or something.....obviously as i know i cant deal with life...!!!!!!

I do this too.:o

Could do with some help please:
How do people ignore urges? I seem to have urges to cut myself and to run away again. Doing the latter would mean parents finding out. (they do know about the first two times; but not the week before last where I went for about 5 hours and scared friend - he had no idea where I was)

Talking of my friend:
He emailed me last week because I'd asked him if we could talk. He replied with the following:

It is clear to me that you have some kind of mental condition, and that you have an obsession towards me.

I cannot know what the mental condition is although it would seem close to Borderline Personality Disorder with schizophrenia. You may also be on the autistic spectrum but I can't tell for certain either.

You therefore need to get a proper diagnosis and your GP must refer you to a specialist who can make one.

Do not let the GP prescribe you any medication because in my opinion they are not qualified to do so. But if a specialist prescribes it to you then you should do as they tell you.

I have some friends on facebook with Bordeline Personality Disorder or similar. I introduced you a few years ago to thesite.org because I thought they might be able to help you there, as they had a self-harming forum.

Your behaviour towards me sometimes borders on "harassment". You probably don't see it that way but it does. I do not want to get you into trouble but it must be handled. That is why I avoid you.

Obviously, there are certain things he's said here that I need to do. How on earth do I ignore what he's said in the second paragraph? He's at least the second person in 6/7 years who has suggested that I have autism. (he has it himself; so understands it)

As much as I hate to admit it, I can understand why he avoids me. He also said previously it's because I must learn to manage without him - I agree with him.

geminilady

Hi i don't have sh urges but have heard wearing an elastic band and snapping it against you can help also ice cubes not sure what you do with them maybe rub them on your skin.From what your friend said he seems to want to help but knows he is not qualified to diagnose.he did not say you are autistic he said you may be on the autistic spectum it was just a suggestion not sure if you were asking him for answers? Maybe it would be an idea to take his advice and ask your gp to refer you to a specialist if the treatment you recieve is not helping

geminilady

HAPPY BIRTHDAY CCSTAR!

Uniscots97

Tiff wrote: »

Hi miro!
Sorry about that last 'miro-digest', hun.;)

Damn it - caught again!



:rotfl:
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Tiff, I normally don't post in this thread (I just lurk). Having such a bad day you wouldn't believe. But saw your post (well the pic) and couldn't help but smile. Thank you

rubytuesday

Happy Birthday CCSTAR:j:bdaycake::j

flis21

CCSTAR Happy Birthday, hope you're having a great day

sock-knitter

happy birthday ccstar xxx

UnluckyT

happy birthday ccstar.
hope everyone okay and getting thier if not hope it gets better.
just hope we get some more decent weather soon though, seems to make me feel better when the sun shining, warm and i have 5mins to chill and forget the ills of the world.