Should I tell him?

belfastgirl23

So you slept with his half brother when you weren't together. personally I don't think this would go on the must tell list, especially since he was responsible for the break up. And if he split up with you because you looked at his texts then TBH he was looking for an excuse out of the relationship to start with.

But agree with the others, this guy is a loser and you should get out of there.

Silverbird

Damzel_In_Distress wrote: »

Let me see if ive got this right....

You asked him,if he would take youback...after he was the one who was lieing to you about abusing drugs whilst in a relationship?

Am i missing something here-or should he not of been the one doing the begging/apologising ? I dont mean to sound rude-but it sounds like this man is just using you-he was the one in the wrong and yet you are the one doing the chasing. No wonder he treats you like that-i bet youve got "mug" tattooed on you somewhere.

Sorry if that sounds harsh-but i belive in speaking the truth. Do yourself a favour and ditch him.

Couldn't agree with this more. I actually wondered if this was a troll post at one point. It all sounds terribly 'Jeremy Kyle'.

I can't get over that the guy said he wasn't doing drugs, she found out he was and then he dumped her because he couldn't trust her!!! Talk about double standards!

Sounds like a real catch.

ailuro2

Go join a club or find a hobby to do somewhere, anywhere that will get you away from this scumbag.

Drugs are bad news, men who dump you for looking at their phone after you've caught them lying are bad news, having a life that sounds like it belongs on a soap is bad news.

Find some self respect and stop sleeping with this loser - who knows where he's been and what he's picked up??

cheepskate_2

Why oh why do women set their sights so low?

pinkcandyflossprincess

Silverbird wrote: »

Couldn't agree with this more. I actually wondered if this was a troll post at one point. It all sounds terribly 'Jeremy Kyle'.

I can't get over that the guy said he wasn't doing drugs, she found out he was and then he dumped her because he couldn't trust her!!! Talk about double standards!

Sounds like a real catch.

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my reaction tbh was "this is MSE not jeremy kyle love"when i first read it but thought myself unnessarily harsh so rephrased it to more benifical advice though no doubt it wont be listened to:rolleyes:

seven-day-weekend

Walk away.

As someone said, change your phone number, don't text him, don't see him at all. Certainly don't sleep with him, you don't know where he has been.

The relationship is over, he is just using you as an 'easy lay'.

You can do better than this.