Sad single and lonely,

Deep_In_Debt

found_a_bargin wrote: »

I must admit the other part im enjoying at the moment is if its not to do with my son or work thatn its up to me what and when i do things.

You will find hobbies and things. I thought my world had ended but found I'm having far more fun being on my own..can do what I want...call me selfish..!!

Can watch what I want on telly, can go to the loo with the door open (yep, I know..!)

It is nice to take time out and re-evaluate what you want out of life. I am happy being single for a while and have more mates than I ever did whilst in a relationship.

Good luck, chin up and all that...it really isn't so bad...

found_a_bargin

I dont think im quite at the match.com stage, Please shoot me if i do.

Also another point is that you dont have to share the jaffa cakes!!!!!

fairydiamond

I hope you feel more upbeat soon. Just take comfort with the fact that you have a lovely son, I would do anything for a child, I really would.

Have you thought about joining a club of some kind? I'm not much help with this kind of thing.:beer: All the best.

worried_jim

cos i took the p!!s out of match.com i've just been and had a look at it. I am a destroyed man already, how anyone can put them selves thru that-
tell us something interesting about your self - well I once auditioned for James Bond but couldn't complete the filming schedule as I was committed to building a donkey sanctuary on Everest for blind orphaned children to get riding lessons"
Or you can tell the truth- I haven't kissed a girl since Slade were in the charts and I like train spotting and paint balling. Jesus, you'll be beating them off with a stick.

I am going to shoot myself, you can get someone else to pull the trigger !

waterwatcher

Love that post worried Jim. I'm single, have been for some time, mate is desperately trying to get me to do online dating and I really cant bring myself to for you very said reasons. I also secretly quite like the single life, sat here in my PJ's eating chocolate and not sharing!!!! ha ha

scaredy_cat

worried_jim wrote: »

cos i took the p!!s out of match.com i've just been and had a look at it. I am a destroyed man already, how anyone can put them selves thru that-
tell us something interesting about your self - well I once auditioned for James Bond but couldn't complete the filming schedule as I was committed to building a donkey sanctuary on Everest for blind orphaned children to get riding lessons"
Or you can tell the truth- I haven't kissed a girl since Slade were in the charts and I like train spotting and paint balling. Jesus, you'll be beating them off with a stick.

I am going to shoot myself, you can get someone else to pull the trigger !

hey!!!:mad: i'm on match.com!!:rotfl:

ok, i'm not takingn it too seriously at the moment and i haven't paid the subscription, but i know a few people who have met nice partners through online dating sites. i must admit you have to sort though a lot of chaff to get to the nice, honest people, but that's no worse than meeting a person at a club/pub.

And i would be more inclined to be interested to a profile who showed some honesty rather than making stuff up which looks to good to be true, cos it usually is!!:p

becky_rtw

Actually I put my friend on mysinglefriend - that seemed to work well she met a nice guy and dated for about 2 years

found_a_bargin

- well I once auditioned for James Bond but couldn't complete the filming schedule as I was committed to building a donkey sanctuary on Everest for blind orphaned children to get riding lessons"

LMAO.....:D

worried_jim

waterwatcher wrote: »

Love that post worried Jim. I'm single, have been for some time, mate is desperately trying to get me to do online dating and I really cant bring myself to for you very said reasons. I also secretly quite like the single life, sat here in my PJ's eating chocolate and not sharing!!!! ha ha

Perfect ! Good for you. I would be a nightmare for someone to take on now as I am so set in my ways. My greatest fear would be to find the ideal lady and then only to discover that she has a cat (given up on relationships- so why interested in me ) likes sh£t music and watches soap operas religiously . Evan I can see why I am single :rotfl:

found_a_bargin

Its the adverts on the tele that make me laugh the most.

I say good luck to the people who have found someone on there but not my cup of tea,

On the plus point i have just had two new friends on facebook!!!!!!!