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Conman.. James Ridley, if you can help please.

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  • fatpiggy
    fatpiggy Posts: 388 Forumite
    There was something in the Daily Mail not long ago about men who con lonely woman. I remember that one at least was from the North East. Do a search and see if you can find the article. Could it be the same person?
  • gatita
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    Hommesdesbois, My friend reported him to plentyoffish and his account was deleted within hours. In hind site of course it would have been better to have left it, and planned some kind of revenge. His user name was:
    VIVAESPANIA

    fatpiggy
    Thank you for the suggestion, I have tried to find that article but had no luck. If anyone could help with this I would be grateful. We just HAVE to track this !!!!!! down one way or another, I just hate to think he has already lined up another victim to prey on:mad:
    When man sacrifices the Love of POWER for the Power of Love, there will be peace on earth.
  • *onlyme*
    *onlyme* Posts: 947 Forumite
    Are you sure that James Ridley is his real name and not just an alias. He might have passports in this name but they could well be fake. He could use another one to travel with.

    I wish your friend the best of luck and hope she can rise above what this 'person' has done to her.

    I am sure that there will be many other women like her out there, but have kept quiet due to being embarrassed, frightened etc.
  • *onlyme*
    *onlyme* Posts: 947 Forumite
    gatita wrote: »
    Hommesdesbois, My friend reported him to plentyoffish and his account was deleted within hours. In hind site of course it would have been better to have left it, and planned some kind of revenge. His user name was:
    VIVAESPANIA

    fatpiggy
    Thank you for the suggestion, I have tried to find that article but had no luck. If anyone could help with this I would be grateful. We just HAVE to track this !!!!!! down one way or another, I just hate to think he has already lined up another victim to prey on:mad:

    What about starting a Facebook group which has his pictures on there and ask everyone to send it to their contacts? :confused:
  • gatita
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    onlyme
    Thanks for that very good idea:o will have to see how one sets it up.

    When my friend feels a bit stronger she will no doubt post on here thanking people herself for the kind words and suggestions.
    When man sacrifices the Love of POWER for the Power of Love, there will be peace on earth.
  • gatita
    gatita Posts: 1,283 Forumite
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    Another small nugget of information, his birth date is 26/12/1962 born in Castle Eden Durham. He also has an Irish passport, and said his relations had been 'very naughty'!!!!!! but who knows what is true anymore!

    I wonder how I could get his picture in the newspapers in Durham asking for information?
    When man sacrifices the Love of POWER for the Power of Love, there will be peace on earth.
  • beth464
    beth464 Posts: 81 Forumite
    It says I'm not allowed to post links as a new user, but the Daily Mail article can be found by adding /femail/article-1161322/You-dont-BMW-heiress-fall-charming-conman--just-desperate-lonely-like-me.html after dailymail . co . uk!


    Hope you find the scumbag!
  • venganza
    venganza Posts: 6 Forumite
    Hello all,

    I just wanted to say thank you for your support.

    Thank you to my friend Gatita for publishing the post.

    It will take time for me to recover emotionally from what this scum bag did but I will not stop doing whatever is in my hands for the police to find and punish him. I only pray he has not started on another victim.
    Please pass on the link to anyone who maybe able to publish it on their website, blog, forum etc.


    :(
  • Another small nugget of information, his birth date is 26/12/1962 born in Castle Eden Durham.

    I've just checked the GRO Birth Index via Ancestry.c.uk for men with the surname Ridley, born in County Durham between October 1962 and March 1963. You won't be surprised to hear that there is no James Ridley.

    The date may be right, but he was born somewhere else, or the name may be false.

    Mrs P P
    "Keep your dreams as clean as silver..." John Stewart (1939-2008)
  • venganza
    venganza Posts: 6 Forumite
    Thank you so much Mrs. Pincher for that information. To be honest, I am not at all surprised as I think he might have a false passport. The year of birth could be anywhere between 1961 and 1966 I suppose....he mentioned that his parents were from Southern Ireland. Westpox or something similar on the southern coast.
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