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Single and in Debt Part II

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  • Lula-Hula
    Lula-Hula Posts: 7,868 Forumite
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    makeup wrote: »
    Oh no, don't let my experiences put me off. At least you have some background on him and you will be far more sensible than me.

    Believe me, I attract the nutters, the slightly odd, the slightly arrogant, etc

    ^ Hmmm sounds just like my fanbase - perhaps we could have a freakswapping party :rotfl:


    Thanks guys for the defragging help , I need to concentrate fully on that so will say goodnight for now
    xx
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Am off to bed!

    Nite, nite x :D
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • gwen80 wrote: »
    Hi!

    Thanks for all the book suggestions and that is such a good idea about visiting the library, makeup. I can get on with my self helping whilst also saving money.

    A bit better day today. I'm going to post my baby steps and try and feel good about things:

    1. Worked hard.

    2. Found a petrol station with unleaded at 99.9 so put some in (on CC :o).

    3. Got some groceries in (again, on CC :eek:), mostly on offer though. Got 3 meals for a fiver from M&S, which are handy for when I work late and also 6 sausages AND 4 burgers from M&S for 1.50 :D Can make meals around these.

    4. Returned stuff to Oasis. Lots of stuff. Money going back on CC.

    5. Found receipt for jeans bought from M&S - to return tomorrow, more money to go back on CC.

    6. Found some receipts where I hadn't used my Clubcard. Went to customer services and got them put on.

    7. Called up Scottish Power about my 112 pound direct debit :eek::eek: It is correct - argh!! It goes some way to explaining the lack of money in my account though. Have resolved to turn stuff off more and REALLY watch my energy usage. However, I was using a fan heater when I ran all this up because my boiler wasn't working, so I'm now thinking of the 70 quid I paid to get it fixed as an investment.

    8. Did a good deed for the day. As I was going down the escalator in M&S, I saw a girl quite a way in front of me lose something. I couldn't see what it was as I was a fair way behind her. I got off and found the item. It was a gorgeous Tiffany pendant. I ran after her, most of the way round the ground floor and gave it her back. Bless her, she was really grateful. Her boyfriend looked really pleased too, I guess it might have been a gift from him. Anyway, that was nice. The pendant really was beautiful though. I just thought I'd emphasise that, in case the guy who's planning to 'whisk me' is reading and is maybe stuck for gift ideas...

    Naughty things:

    1. Spent about a fiver on lunch stuff from M&S.

    2. Bought two coffee's at work.

    Hope everybody else is doing well.

    Gwenx


    Now that is an impressive day Gwen! brilliant mananging in a crisis !xxxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • sarahb123_3
    sarahb123_3 Posts: 2,767 Forumite
    Shoe_Gal wrote: »
    sarah - just looked at your signature - did I miss the celebrations when you reached 5lbs weightloss? Well done you :j

    Thanks Shoe Gal:D I started a new diet at the weekend, which I am determined to stick to as I spent £46 on a Tesco online shop and I am not wasting it.

    I decided to order a couple of things I hadn't tried before as I know I don't eat a good enough variety of vegetables, in the spirit of which I have just had my first ever taste of celery. _pale__pale__pale_ I cannot believe people eat that stuff, no wonder I am fat if this is how you lose weight. :mad:
    Pay/save £20k in 2010 £5888.75/£20,000
    June Mini target 0/5lbs Total 23/40
    Ebay profit 2010: March £207:) April £95:) May £130:) June £0 Total £432:j
  • makeup wrote: »
    Oh no, don't let my experiences put me off. At least you have some background on him and you will be far more sensible than me.

    Believe me, I attract the nutters, the slightly odd, the slightly arrogant, etc

    I get the "do you want to have sex on camera messages":eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: its not nice at all. Another good reason to safely remove myself.

    Although apparently it happens - if you have been on a while (even if you have been hidden) men assume you are up for that sort of thing. I think the key might be only be on there for say six months?

    xx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • sarahb123 wrote: »
    Thanks Shoe Gal:D I started a new diet at the weekend, which I am determined to stick to as I spent £46 on a Tesco online shop and I am not wasting it.

    I decided to order a couple of things I hadn't tried before as I know I don't eat a good enough variety of vegetables, in the spirit of which I have just had my first ever taste of celery. _pale__pale__pale_ I cannot believe people eat that stuff, no wonder I am fat if this is how you lose weight. :mad:

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: you could try cooking it in a stew?
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
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    sarahb123 wrote: »
    Thanks Shoe Gal:D I started a new diet at the weekend, which I am determined to stick to as I spent £46 on a Tesco online shop and I am not wasting it.

    I decided to order a couple of things I hadn't tried before as I know I don't eat a good enough variety of vegetables, in the spirit of which I have just had my first ever taste of celery. _pale__pale__pale_ I cannot believe people eat that stuff, no wonder I am fat if this is how you lose weight. :mad:


    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: I love celery - but I'm not thin :rolleyes:
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • sarahb123_3
    sarahb123_3 Posts: 2,767 Forumite
    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: you could try cooking it in a stew?

    That would involve learning how to make a stew:o Cooking is not my strong point. I will stick with plan A which is to throw it in the bin.
    Pay/save £20k in 2010 £5888.75/£20,000
    June Mini target 0/5lbs Total 23/40
    Ebay profit 2010: March £207:) April £95:) May £130:) June £0 Total £432:j
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    sarahb123 wrote: »
    That would involve learning how to make a stew:o Cooking is not my strong point. I will stick with plan A which is to throw it in the bin.

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::D
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • sarahb123 wrote: »
    That would involve learning how to make a stew:o Cooking is not my strong point. I will stick with plan A which is to throw it in the bin.

    There is one here you can make with red wine!

    http://www.stewrecipes.net/

    I am biased cos I love celery but throwing away food is like throwing away money! find a way to use it!


    xxxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
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