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Diary of a Poor Person aged 46 1/2

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  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,973 Forumite
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    Hi MrsC - I had disasters of my own yesterday so didn't get on... I'm currently waiting for a lift to a funeral - as both cars are off the road - and the lift is late so a bit worried about whether we will get there on time EEK

    Sorry about OH's company - Hope he manages to restart something so you can ge the income flowing again.... In the meantime challenge every spend even if you don't want to post an SOA look thro everything to see what you can take out!
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £24.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 30.1/£127.5K target 23.6% 29/7/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • PMA positive mental attitude where there is will there is a way... be willing to accept big changes if need be :D You can get through this tthere is no shame in having a tough time of it and we are here to support you if its 3 am in the morning or not :D do not get sleepless nights .... could you rent your house at is there someone you can ask for help ?? can you sell up ? is there anything we can do ?? what can you dismiss of and save quick cash on some luxuries may have to go :D put an soa up we can help xx
    I AM A MONEY MAGNET, THEY ARE MAKING MORE MONEY FOR ME AS WE SPEAK:pMIKES MOB, DFW NERD 1071, DFW LHS 132!MIRACLES HAPPEN I'VE SEEN IT WITH MY OWN EYES. LBM 08£77240.69 Current outstanding total £36083.01 Paid so far = £41157.68
  • mrscmr
    mrscmr Posts: 2,903 Forumite
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    ok im gonna go day by day. PMA is my new motto!!!

    might be able to shift both cars - talked to garage today. need to earn more in proper paid work and get ebay moving .....

    't will be OK!!! dont panic peeps - its been worse!
    Highest Debt £581,000 Nov 08 and now owe nothing! yes really! I have learnt my lesson the hard way!
    :heart2:Ebay Challenge 2011 - Still supporting from afar!
    Long haulers supporters DFW #223
  • Raini
    Raini Posts: 471 Forumite
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    We're all her hun *willing* you on xx
    Mortgage: Jun 08 £155300~Repayment Made: £4300~Remaining: Mar 10 £151000
    DFW Nerd 1190
  • mrscmr
    mrscmr Posts: 2,903 Forumite
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    THANK YOU!!!!!!! Raini and happytoget means alot to mexx
    Highest Debt £581,000 Nov 08 and now owe nothing! yes really! I have learnt my lesson the hard way!
    :heart2:Ebay Challenge 2011 - Still supporting from afar!
    Long haulers supporters DFW #223
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,973 Forumite
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    mrscmr wrote: »
    ok im gonna go day by day. PMA is my new motto!!!

    might be able to shift both cars - talked to garage today. need to earn more in proper paid work and get ebay moving .....

    't will be OK!!! dont panic peeps - its been worse!
    Really good attitude:T but when the doubts come feel free to vent! We're here for that..... Good luck too!
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £24.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 30.1/£127.5K target 23.6% 29/7/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • Keep up the good work its scary times but we have health we have hope and we will all get through this :D x
    I AM A MONEY MAGNET, THEY ARE MAKING MORE MONEY FOR ME AS WE SPEAK:pMIKES MOB, DFW NERD 1071, DFW LHS 132!MIRACLES HAPPEN I'VE SEEN IT WITH MY OWN EYES. LBM 08£77240.69 Current outstanding total £36083.01 Paid so far = £41157.68
  • chevalier
    chevalier Posts: 7,937 Forumite
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    sorry to hear that your OH couldn't keep the company going. That must be a real blow. I hope that you can BOTH tackle this together. There is nothing worse, than one partner scrimping and saving whilst the other ones carries on as if nothing has changed. I hope that this won't be the case for you... Well done on getting some more paid work though, and the ebaying, well it puts us all to shame good luck chev
    I want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
  • Karen_30
    Karen_30 Posts: 823 Forumite
    mrscmr wrote: »
    ok im gonna go day by day. PMA is my new motto!!!

    might be able to shift both cars - talked to garage today. need to earn more in proper paid work and get ebay moving .....

    't will be OK!!! dont panic peeps - its been worse!

    Go you! PMA all the way sounds like a good plan to me :D Just remember we're all here supporting you along the way xx
  • mrscmr
    mrscmr Posts: 2,903 Forumite
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    its late
    im tired
    i havent finished my work for the big meeting tomorrow so im gonna either work all night or get up silly early o'clock

    my own fault though....

    how everyone doing?

    OH talking to insolvency co's today ... deep joy
    Highest Debt £581,000 Nov 08 and now owe nothing! yes really! I have learnt my lesson the hard way!
    :heart2:Ebay Challenge 2011 - Still supporting from afar!
    Long haulers supporters DFW #223
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